[razeljenny]

How much house space is needed and why

[nothemama8]

when you say house space what do you mean, my hubby and I share equally

[jlove973]

I agree with nothemama8. Would you mean for example letting him/her take over the living room for T.V, friends or other things that you are not involved in? Maybe for them to have alone time? I'm not to sure the question. Give us more detail's IMHO-I'm thinking your on the right track of a great topic/thread

[Wants2Fly]

I'm glad others don't perfectly understand the question. I'm a bit lost, too.

[razeljenny]

What I mean, is that for times necessary do you feel most at ease allowing him his cave time? Dosen't it improve the love between you both when you have discovered he needs a small social break while you are both still at the house? In other words, have you resisted impulses to get close when you sensed he was under some duress and vice versa?

It is just becomming easier for me (Finally) to see it for what "Is" and back off or vice versa him to back off (still being in the same building, yet not talking or touching much to improve and grow adoration, "For "absence, (real or a mental break) makes the heart grow fonder." Are there any successful interesting stories of benefit from this allowing house space, that you would not mind sharing about yourself and spouse here at the board? It is so neat when we can reminice about the days we cherish with those we tenderly love. Thanks. Robin Razel

[tiodlliwi]

Read my topic I posted "TIme apart" in response to your original post. That's my situation and I agree, absence does make the heart grow finder. I do want to get to the point that it seems you are at where you can feel comfortable not being together- in the same house or otherwise.