[ptangptang]

My online girlfriend is moving in with me in 3 weeks time. People on here know me so i won't lie. I'm 57 never had a relationship and obviously never lived with a woman apart from my mum ( and no she's not a replacement mother figure.) We are very compatible and with give and take on both sides i don't see any reason why it shouldn't work out. OK so any advice, tips, thoughts, ideas appreciated. Any questions i'll answer honestly. Don't see any stigma about admitting to being a virgin so guys if i can cum out ( she also knows i like ABBA) at 57 and into a loving relationship then so can you ,never mind what age you are. We all need to give and receive love. It's never too late. OK over to you guys and gals.

[Pikku Myy]

Soooo happy to hear the good news tang My advice... be yourself and never lie.

[healingme4me]

That's fantastic news Honesty, keeping communication flowing, should be fine. .don't harbor resentment, if something troubles you, don't hold it in forever, pick and choose words where you can address your needs, yet support hers.

Don't forget to drop in here, for tidbits, if you need support or to gloat!!!

Yay!!!

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[Trippin2.0]

Don't go to sleep angry, leave the toilet seat down and last but not least enjoy!

Lol, I've never cohabitated, so I'm no expert

Congrats on your newfound love I hope you two will be very happy together!

[Nightside of Eden]

Congratulations on your relationship! I hear a lot of people in their twenties thinking they'll be alone for the rest of their lives, and it's nice to see proof that love can find us at any time.

My fiance and I moved in together last November. Neither of us had a lot of experience living with a partner and it was a really hard adjustment. I think it took about 3 months for the awkwardness to completely go away. When you live with another person, you both have to adjust your habits, and I think this is even harder for the person whose home you move into (always assuming you're not getting a new place where neither have lived before). We live in my house and I still do a few things that drive him a little nuts, lol.

Also, while it sounds counter-intuitive, you sometimes have to focus more on spending time together when you live together. It's easy to start losing touch with each other because you're not focused on each other when you're together the way most couples are before they live together. Your time together can cease to be special if you don't make an effort to keep it that way.

Really, though, if you really love each other and stay attentive and patient with each other, I'm sure everything will work out fine. Living with someone you love is a great way to live.

[catsrhelm]

Really listen when she talks. Don't be afraid to spend time with her. Have faith in what she does. That is the only advice I can give from the woman's point of view.

Nawww I feel warm and fuzzy

[Total]

Good for you! Just enjoy it and don't over analyse. This is bound to be the love of your life so jut choose to be happy.

[yumi]

I'm really happy for you! Congrats

Just be honest always, don't lie to her or hide things from her. Pay attention to her, cuddling as well as sex...keep intimacy outside the bedroom as well as in the bedroom. Women love to be cuddled.

Keep the toilet seat down so she doesn't fall in, haha.

Embrace this relationship , give it your all and enjoy yourself

[ptangptang]

UPDATE!!! Ok so, we've been been together since last Friday after i met her at the station. I'll be honest and say she is a bigger lady than i thought but you know what, that is just more to cuddle. We haven't got a double bed yet ( that's on it's way). The sex ( in our own way) is great. I have a bit of an ED problem but there are other ways and she had a smile on her face and KY jelly is on the shopping list so that can't be bad. TMI ....? hahaWe are still coming to terms with how to say things to each other without the other looking askance but thats no biggi. She snores but she already told me that and i find it endearing. I'm more laid back and i do things in my own time and she's the opposite ( the ying to my yang) but i need a kick up the butt now and then but as long as she leaves me thinking that i'm still the boss then all's well. So summing up. It feels really good together , we are ( i would say) pretty compatible, we have the same goals ( to make a lovely house and have a nice life together) and any teething problems can be ironed out and hey hohere we go. SO TO ALL THOSE LONELY GUYS OUT THERE. GET OUT AND FIND SOMEONE. If only for the jelly and ice cream :-)

[trying2survive]

Originally Posted by ptangptang

My online girlfriend is moving in with me in 3 weeks time. People on here know me so i won't lie. I'm 57 never had a relationship and obviously never lived with a woman apart from my mum ( and no she's not a replacement mother figure.) We are very compatible and with give and take on both sides i don't see any reason why it shouldn't work out. OK so any advice, tips, thoughts, ideas appreciated. Any questions i'll answer honestly. Don't see any stigma about admitting to being a virgin so guys if i can cum out ( she also knows i like ABBA) at 57 and into a loving relationship then so can you ,never mind what age you are. We all need to give and receive love. It's never too late. OK over to you guys and gals.

diplomacy is key, it is important that you realize it will no longer be only about "you" so to speak..me becomes "we" THIS IS VERY,VERY IMPORTANT. you will get to find out quite a bit about each other very soon now...you will have your "honeymoon phase" which is what you guys are in now(where neither of you can do any wrong!) then in a lil while reality will kick in..not a bad thing, just inevitability, this is where the test will come in, each of you have different "habits" or "quirks" the two of you will need to get used to.

as long as both of you are open to communication and have a great sense of humor..the two of you will be fine. any disputes need to be dealt with right away so they don't fester and harbor resentment.communication and understanding are major keys to make things work & the realization that each of you now have a responsibility to make the other member happy. It's wonderful that you don't have any old, bad relationship habits to break..so a huge advantage to you!!

hang in there and good luck!

[gayleggg]

Congratulations! Sounds like things are going very good. Keep up the good work.

[Onward2wards]

Congratulations to both of you, Ptang! This is great news. I can't offer any more advice than what others have written, it all sounds accurate to me.

Congrat's ptangptang! I'm 65 & my wife & I been married for many years. One specific piece of advice I would offer is to keep you finances separate. Assuming that you both have separate sources of income, from whatever source, have separate checking accounts or whatever you use. Many arguments among couples start with finances. If you have your accounts & she has hers & you split the expenses 50 / 50, or whatever percentage arrangement you have, then it's much easier to avoid arguments over money. You know how much money you have & what your portion of the expenses is. And, likewise, she has hers. Then whatever each of you has left over is what you have available to spend on luxuries, either separately or together.