Why is he jealous about guys if he just sexually wants me?

I assume that he just wants me sexually, I mean he shows the signs that he just wants me as a f u c k buddy, but I could be wrong. But everytime I bring up a guy, he cuts me off, or he just gets stupidly angry. But yet he'll sometimes bring up girls that he had sex with. He was on my laptop and he was on his Facebook and he was laughing at what my mom said on FB. So I noticed my old friend commented on what my mom said, and I said "Tyler H? I didn't know my mom is friends with him! Wow! Click on his page" and then he clicked on his page and he was like

"How do you know him?" I said "He's an old friend" He's looking through his pics and then he says "Did you f u c k him?" I said "No" He said "You f u c k e d him!" and he clicked off the page and got up all mad.

I could go on and on about stories of his jealousy with me and guys. It is so noticeable. But yet he seems to only be sexually attracted to me, he is kinda the player type. He is not that type that commits. So that is why I don't get why it matters who I go out with and such if he just wants a f u c k buddy? Also he'll say all the time "Where you going?" "You look nice where you going?" And he had to use my phone and I said "Don't go through my pics" He said "Why do you got nude pics or something?" I said "No" He said "Let me see these nudies!" and then I said "don't go through my messages and he said "Why are you so jumpy? You sexting guys or something?" I just don't get it. Cause if you just want to screw me then why do you care who I talk to and what guys I associate with? Or is it something else? What do you think?

Well, only you know him irl so if you see that sex is all he wants then you're right. As for being jealous that comes with it too. Regardless of being in a romantic relationship and putting a name to it or not that's how it is. Some people disagree but when sex is involved feelings are too. Even though he isn't acknowledging it, that's exactly what's going on.

Yeah, I guess you're right! However, I never had sex with him though, I am just assuming that is all he wants. I never even kissed him either. Lol. But thank you!

There are very few situations where unattached sex actually works. No matter what people say, if you're taht intimate with anyone for a long enough period, people get attached.

I'm not sure why anyone would give into such a situation either. for me, even as a guy, if you want my body, you better want the rest of me and be ready for something more than that.. sex is something that only comes with a relationship or go away.

Yeah I see. However I never had sex with him though. I am just friends with him. I just assume he just wants sex off of me, cause he 's the player type, thus why I never kissed him or anything. But thank you for commenting!

yeah I didn't see that til after I posted. Sorry for the tone in my original reply.

Well unless he really comes onto you, just keep him at arm's length. if he's just a friend he has no right to be jealous. If he wants to be your bf he needs to step up, and I hope for more than just sex too.

Even as a friend he doesn't sound like soemone that is very good to you at all. TBH.

What do YOU want?

No you're fine! Yeah I know what you mean. I just don't get his jealousy cause that's the thing we are just platonic friends so it shouldn't matter who we go out with. I don't care who he goes out with cause I am just his friend. But if I even bring up a guy he just gets super jealous and weird about it. He also will cut me off and change the subject. It's weird. Thank you!

I would like a relationship out of him, but I am holding myself back cause I don't know if he wants that, considering he's the player type. So I am unsure of what to do with him. I am friends with him though, so that's ok, I am just baffled by his behavior. Thank you for commenting!

Relationships with jealous partners, rarely goes well.

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He sounds like a controlling jerk...

I think you need to decide what you want. If you just want to have a f**k buddy, I'd pick someone else because he seems a little hypocritical and conflicted.

If you want him to be more than a f**k buddy..........then STOP f**king him and by that I mean, stop being available for him to imply by words and actions that you WOULD f**k him. He doesn't need your phone, he doesn't need to check FB on your computer...etc.

Basically tho, it's up to you. So decide.

Pretty cut and dried, actually.