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So after thinking everything over and over I really think tomorrow is my deadline!
![]() If my fiancé does not give me an answer as to if she will officially move back in with me tomorrow im going to just give up and officially end our relationship and complete shut off from her! I'm 24 and I want to be happy! i was always happy and every one saw me happy! I made everyone else happy but now im just not the same no more! we been engage for 1 1/2 and in a relationship for 7 years! we both are 24 and we have a daughter together and we been separated for 3 months! I truly believe 3 months is more than enough time to get your mind straight and realize if she still loves me the same or not! especially since we have a daughter together that's 9 months! This is going to be really hard for me but im tired of being sad! I just really don't get her! she tells me I love you every day and when we do see each other we always give each other a kiss before I leave! I have a good relationship with my daughter in which I keep her every other day because I love my daughter so much! But in all honesty i'm tired of being alone! I really am. I hate coming home to an empty apartment in which only I live in and always think in my mind will she be walking through that door today! ![]() Do you think im doing the right thing? |
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#2
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It makes sense to me. Three months should be enough time for someone to make a decision. You can't live in limbo like this forever.
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I, agree, with hvert. You've given her plent of time to figure out if she wants a relationship with you or not. Once the decision is made, you can move forward and find that happy guy again.
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In ending this limbo, protect yourself and relationship with your daughter. An official visitation schedule, can be given by courts, for unwed parents. Truly it's to protect, if going through with a no contact relationship, which is near impossible when children are involved, but I get what you mean about enough being enough. Paperwork can be obtained in the family probate clerks office and filed for a minimal fee. Not everyone can afford an attorney, and from experience, more people than not arrive pro se. It's ok.
Just cover yourself and your paternal rights. Sent from my LGMS323 using Tapatalk |
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