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Old Sep 12, 2014, 11:01 PM
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I'm at the end of my line. I desperately seek someone to love, to be my life partner. I try so hard, treat my date well, look for common ground. After every one, it's the same old &@. I'm sure I'm well known on dating sites as loser material. I'm 32 and out of other options. HELP!!!
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Old Sep 12, 2014, 11:04 PM
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I don't know what to say but hang in there. My husband was 32 when we met. Been married 28 years.
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Old Sep 12, 2014, 11:11 PM
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Be careful. You might get what you ask for.
You are asking for "someone" to love.
What you need to do is wait and find the "right" person to love.
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Old Sep 12, 2014, 11:26 PM
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Be careful. You might get what you ask for.
You are asking for "someone" to love.
What you need to do is wait and find the "right" person to love.
My fear is that right one has come and gone and I blew it. I don't have any friends to help me. I'm working with a therapist, but it can only get me so far. Are some things never meant to happen?
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Old Sep 12, 2014, 11:32 PM
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How does the therapist help you?
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Old Sep 12, 2014, 11:46 PM
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"Are some things never meant to happen?"
It would be safe to say that poker playing giraffes are never meant to happen.
As far as you finding a life partner, I direct you to this song...


You will be ok!
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Old Sep 13, 2014, 01:54 AM
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I know how you feel. I sometimes think that i've got so much love to give and to share it hurts so much. I've met someone and all i can say is that it's early days and i'm always scared of blowing it but so far so good. Life is so unfair isn't it. But you are only 32 so still time. I wish you well.
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Old Sep 13, 2014, 02:36 PM
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I would say work with you T about self worth and loving yourself first. People often come across as desperate to dates and not even know it. You just need self love and confidence.

Are there activities you can join in your area that would allow you to meet more women than just a dating site. Maybe an art class or cooking class ( women love a man that knows hows to cook )

I great place to meet women is a library or book store Im not kidding .

Or a coffee shop ,, There are usually loaded with single women that want to go out but no one to go with ,so coffee shop and a computer is a great way to pass the time. Notice the same one a few times walk by and mention you have see her before and would love to buy her a coffee or latte or what ever she likes.

Widen your search.

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