[Techsavy]

From the time he drowned my dog's puppies in front of me and the dog...to the time he locked me in the car that he parked by the railroad tracks and came back at 4 in the morning, this person has been a nightmare parent. He is obsessed with controlling me and even after two years of ignoring his attempts to call or email me, he still keeps coming after me. You can't tell him off because he hangs up on you before you can finish a sentence that might draw him out of his comfort zone. You would think that after all this time he would eventually give up but he never does. Mind games, manipulation, lies, anger, the list goes on.

Anybody got any advice on how to keep him away from me and my family? Everyone hates him but he won't stop this evil behavior.

[kaliope]

hi techsavy
I would block his calls and any attempts to contact you. Make no efforts to contact or visit him and not allow him into your home. Essentially let him know that he is cut off and unwelcome. You are done with him and no longer putting up with his abuse. That is what I did with my father. It was the first step to my healing. I owed him nothing. welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome

[Techsavy]

Thanks Kali. It helps to know that other people have experienced these things and have found a way to cope.

[Lemon Curd]

Run. Move. Get away for your sake & your family.
Get a restraining order.
He sounds like one sick b*stard.
You don't need him stressing out your life anymore.
To me it truly sounds like he's stalking & bullying you.
Don't give him any part of you anymore.
Don't talk, respond, or reply to him.
The best thing is to "completely" ignore him.
Otherwise, you are still playing his game with him.