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Oct 11, 2014, 04:19 AM
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Everyone in this house has a mental health issue or 2, it's an accepting house. But one of my housemates has been extremely inconsiderate for quite a while and we all just want her to leave.
She is unstable and hates confrontation, we get that but I have had a migraine all day and every time she stomps through the house (because she can't seem to walk quietly despite her petite size and history as a dancer) my anxiety spikes. My partner spoke to her and in response she stomped louder, made her bulimia well known to the house and slammed a few doors. Our electricity bill is through the roof and she won't tell us when she is leaving even though this was supposed to be a temporary arrangement. We are all at our wit's ends and don't know what to do.....
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#2
Oct 11, 2014, 08:37 AM
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Can you evict her?
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Oct 12, 2014, 01:26 AM
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I don't know how that works. We can't talk to her because she is queen at pretending nothing is wrong even when it is right in front of her.
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Oct 12, 2014, 02:17 AM
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Sounds like time for an intervention; get everyone together and tell her it isn't working and she is disrupting peace in the house and she needs to leave. She won't like it one bit but she has to be told.
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Oct 13, 2014, 07:00 AM
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See, I tried to organise that but despite having the worst mental health in the house, I seem to be the bravest.
Trying to get my mental health to a point where I can confront her.
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“There is no magic cure, no making it all go away forever. There are only small steps upward; an easier day, an unexpected laugh, a mirror that doesn't matter anymore.” - Wintergirls Things to keep in mind when interacting with me: 1. Do not try to medicate me. I am not on medication for a very good reason. 2. I don't do hugs. 3. If I ask for help, it is because I am at the breaking point, otherwise I have a bad habit of keeping quiet. Please do not brush me off. |
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Oct 15, 2014, 11:44 AM
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Is her name on the lease? If not you can evict her easily. If it is I'm afraid you are stuck until she decides to leave or the lease expires.
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Oct 15, 2014, 08:01 PM
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*Thinks* Yes it is =(
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