[pinkvilla]

I feel very much like a dirty immoral person with my current boyfriend. I have never felt like that with anyone else.Usually people think of me as a respectable person and am very prude in my real life .Is this a bad sign ??Should I let him go?? It is not a pleasant feeling and makes me feel dirty. I have the same feeling after watching porn.He hasn't said anything to that effect but it's just my feeling inside .I feel so shameful.

[Crazy Hitch]

Hi pink

I am sorry that you are feeling this way with your current boyfriend.

Are you perhaps engaging in activities with him that push you past your comfort zone? Have you tried having a conversation about your boyfriend? I only ask because I was wondering if he is aware of how you are feeling. If it is something, per say, that you are participating in that makes you feel uncomfortable your boyfriend wouldn't really know unless you verbalized it.

Am I on the right track?

What are your thoughts on what I've mentioned?

[gayleggg]

If you are feeling shame there's a problem. No one should put themselves in a situation that makes them feel shame. I used to have behaviors that caused me great shame. I worked really hard to get past them.

Talk to your boyfriend and if that doesn't work then you might want to consider moving on.

I have had that dirty feeling whenever I was around my ex friend I ignored my gut feelings because I wanted a friend so badly and it almost destroyed my health and mind .

My advice is break up with him

[pinkvilla]

Originally Posted by gayleggg

If you are feeling shame there's a problem. No one should put themselves in a situation that makes them feel shame. I used to have behaviors that caused me great shame. I worked really hard to get past them.

Talk to your boyfriend and if that doesn't work then you might want to consider moving on.

May I ask if you went to therapy for getting rid of shame or how did you get past shame??Thanks for replying to my post..