[Somethingunfunny84]

After being cheated on by what I thought was my soulmate and for him to leave and start seeing the other woman straight away I am in bits. I am trying to process the emotional turmoil as I sit in the house we shared but I am faced with some big decisions. We live in a very small place, he grew up here has lots of friends and family, I moved here three years ago and within 3 months met in. I now have to try and decide if I should stay and if I can bare the torture of knowing and seeing them together or if I should up root my life and leave, but I have no idea what too as what I pictured for my forever and my future is no longer there? Advice?

[jelly-bean]

You are in a tough spot. Do you like the place you are living in? How about your job. do you enjoy working there> How many friends do you have? Do you want to give all these things up? If you can answer all these questions you will have your answer. However, I think you should wait until after you have grieved your loss for a bit and let the pain lessen and then ask the questions.

It's hard to say .. if you have nothing there that is keeping you then I would say leave and find a new place and get a fresh start .

[Crazy Hitch]

That's got to hurt. I feel your pain.

At the end of the day you need to look after your own mental health and wellbeing.

This has, understandably taken an enormous toll on you.

And right now you're not coping with the constant reminders of him.

If you can't get into intensive therapy to try and process what has happened, you might want to consider the options of moving on ....

It's hard. But you need to take care of yourself!