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Dec 29, 2014, 12:59 PM
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Just broke up with my ex of almost 2 years a month ago. We had a pretty good relationship. He was sweet nice, nothing abusive or anything. We spent a good amount of time together. Maybe 1-3 days and nights a week. He said he was so in love with me and he wish he dated me sooner. That I was the best woman he had ever met in his life. Then 5 months ago I found out he cheated early in our relationship and the girl was pregnant (baby is here now). We broke up, I told him all I'd been through with my children's father and I don't condone cheating or lying. He claimed he loved me was really sorry and he wanted me not her and it was a 1 time mistake. I took him back. He began to spend more time with me and tell me whenever he was with his baby. Right before thanksgiving I found out he was in relationship with that girl. So I ended it. I told the girl how he lied to me and her and found out they had been together for 9 years. She didn't believe me and when we all were on 3 way he denied ever being with me romantically. It devastated me. I was okay leaving him, inside I felt he was lying but wanted proof so when I found it I left him. I haven't contacted him since. Nor has he contacted me. I want an apology and explanation for his deceit and lies. I'm hurt I don't understand how this happened for almost 2 years and I didn't see it. Any advice to getting through this hurt and moving forward?
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Dec 29, 2014, 08:19 PM
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Girlsgroup, welcome to Psych Central and hugs for all the hurt you must be feeling.
You were lied to and that must really hurt. I guess you can be thankful for one thing. You are not stuck with his baby. That poor woman he is with now may be left or cheated on. I feel your pain and her pain. How to get through this: Talk to your therapist or get a therapist. This can really help get to the roots of the problem. If you find yourself getting depressed, seeing a psychiatrist and having them prescribe appropriate meds can help. At Psych Central (PC) there are forums on Grief and Loss and other areas that may be of interest. Psych Central - Search results for Recovering from roken relationships
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