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Jan 12, 2015, 02:16 AM
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Tell me how you feel when your boyfriend or husband haven't had or wanted to have sex with you in a while.
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Jan 13, 2015, 07:37 AM
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My boyfriend hasn't had sex with me for about a year now. I was pregnant then and has the baby he is 3 months now. He says give him time I am tied off waiting. Then he has the nerve to say I am being distant. Yes I am because I feel like ugly and depressed cause he doesn't have sex with me. That is what happens when I get denied sex.my husband even knew that.
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Jan 14, 2015, 02:21 AM
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Well, I think that's a very personal question so I don't think I will answer it. Maybe some of the others will.
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Jan 14, 2015, 06:50 AM
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My husband had a spine operation which left him with nerve Damage and Ed I left it as I did not want to upset him if he could not get an erection this went on for 7 Years no physical contact I have just found out his problem was better when I caught him out paying to watch porn and Masrabating he told me I was boring in bed and he has not loved me for a long time we tried having sex but I can't get it out of my head what he said I thought it was me I put weight on I was ugly useless but all the time he was lieing to me now all we do is fight
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Jan 14, 2015, 09:56 AM
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Stop fighting lose weight
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Jan 14, 2015, 12:16 PM
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I also have a baby. My husbands excuses were: afraid to hurt the baby, he felt like I was a different person (had big belly), anxiety if he's able to support the baby/family, lack of sleep, baby watching us, afraid of waking the baby, that my body is for the baby (breastfeeding). He also blamed my post baby weight. Now he says he is depressed. He feels ashamed. I'm not angry at him but do feel inadequate for him, I felt ugly, fat, gross, sad, and unwanted, but most of it wasn't me. He's having a hard time adjusting to parenthood. I was BFing so I wasn't in the mood either, now I'm on antidepressants so now my libido is low. It's very common for tho issues for new parents. I also have bought a sex toy that he was ok with
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Jan 14, 2015, 06:33 PM
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Did you ask him, what the deal was? Are either of you in couples counseling or individual?
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Jan 14, 2015, 07:52 PM
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OP.. I hope your able to have a helpful conversation. I'm sorry your having this problem, it just hurts 
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