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Feb 16, 2015, 03:56 PM
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My husbands best friend has recently found his FIRST love on a dating site.
He is now dating her exclusively. My husband and he have been friends for 25 years. My question: Do you think its okay to date the first love of your best friend? I'm very angry and confusedf and will appreciate any and all thoughts on the subject, from the male and female perspective.
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Feb 16, 2015, 03:59 PM
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I'm confused. Is this the best friend's first love, or your husband's first love? Sorry.
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Feb 16, 2015, 07:32 PM
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 Yeah I am confused too Ex gf/bf ? husband/wife ? regardless it's never a good thing in my mind.
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Feb 16, 2015, 07:56 PM
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I'm sorry. Its my husbands first love that his best friend is now dating.
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Feb 16, 2015, 08:02 PM
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Okay .. Your angry.. How does your husband feel about it?
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Feb 16, 2015, 10:13 PM
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I don't think I would be bothered by it myself, from my own female perspective. Sometimes people reconnect with old high school pals and a romance develops. Your husband must be over his feelings for that person by now and she is interested in his friend, not your husband --- unless you have reason to believe she is using the friend to get to your husband?
Hmm, it does actually sound like it could be awkward if she was very close to your husband for a significant amount of time. It's possible that it won't last, so maybe it's best to keep your opinion to yourself for a while longer and just see how it plays out? |
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Feb 19, 2015, 10:43 PM
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Never, never, never get entangled with an Friends Ex. NO MATTER WHAT
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