Neighbor ignores me publicly, but friendly in private

I have a neighbor that I had a spat with 4 months ago. I was tired of her bully attitude and her daughter's bully attitude towards me and my daughter and I called her out on it and stood my ground. I'm sure she's probably trashed me behind my back to the other neighbors on our street that we are friendly with. She did not speak to me up until a month ago when she started waving at me again and saying a casual hello. She has also called me and we've had civil, friendly conversations on the phone. One mystery remains......she ignores all my stuff on Facebook. Even stuff that all the other neighbors "like" or comment on, she ignores. She kept me as a "friend", but does not acknowledge any of my stuff. So, I've been doing the same to her. Why would she do this?? Should I keep ignoring her stuff like she does to me or acknowledge her stuff on Facebook to let her know that she can't get away with being friendly privately and not publicly. What do you all think is going on?

Maybe when you weren't talking she blocked all your posts , I have had to do that to some people.

Facebook causes so many problems , I expect it will be the downfall of mankind.

If I were on your shoes I would just let it go, life is too short .

"Facebook causes so many problems...." ~Christina

I know of people at work that are constantly on it. Management should really do something about it, but they're on it too!

Yep Facebook will indeed be the down fall of mankind

I've thought the same thing about Facebook. It makes life so much more complicated. I've thought about just closing my account and leaving it behind forever, but everyone is on it. Even businesses use it for business transactions. So I feel like I'd never have any information if I wasn't on it as well.

I shut down my account. FB is TOO much drama! She probably unsubscribed to your feed when she was mad and never re-subscribed. In a FB free world, you two would be on good terms. See why FB is so wretched?

My advice? Disconnect from the pseudo-social networks. The truth is that they're not really all that "social" if you think about it!

I agree that she probably unfollowed you when she was angry. If you comment on some of her things, she may start seeing you pop up in her feed again. Years ago Facebook had an option to show you a little, some, or a lot of an individual's posts. I set a bunch of people to 'a little' and now I never see anything - and can't figure out how to undo it!

Personally, I think you're making way too much of this. I don't "like" or comment on everything my FB friends post. It doesn't mean anything. What are you gonna do? Threaten her and tell her that she can't get away with not comment on your FB stuff? I mean, seriously! That's just ridiculous!

She may have chosen to not show your posts on her wall. I wouldn't take it personally. Perhaps she just wants her feed to be filled with specific things.

My facebook feed is mostly music. A few of my friends post a lot about various things and it doesn't do me much good to see those updates so often so I have their statuses updates reduced via the feed settings. It doesn't mean I don't like them, and I'm not being passive aggressive. I'm just choosing what I want to read.