Inconsiderate?

After coming home from work tonight, my husband told me that he is going out to meet with some prospective students for a class that he is trying to teach. He came back after 9 pm and presented to me that he will be teaching Monday's and Wednesday's, plus he already has some students that he is teaching on Thursdays. It made me so angry. Just the fact that he is planning his evenings away without consulting with me first. Makes me feel like a doormat in his life, like he doesn't even care. Of course he did not understand when I told him that I found it inconsiderate of him. Makes me feel so sad tonight.

I'm sorry he didn't think to have a discussion with your prior to making a decision to working in the evenings... Could he just be thinking, "well if do this I can make X amount more money"

My husband has done this a few times , he just was thinking about how that extra money would help us.. He didn't realize how I felt.. Can you have a conversation with him about this?

Maybe the only nights you guys can plan quality time together... Maybe on the nights hes out working you could go out with a friend (s), find something you enjoy.

Good luck

I will try and talk with him about it. It's not the first time he's done something like that either.
We have kids at home so no going out with friends while he's away.