So called friends

Just when I thought of found a good genuine friend who cared
(I had lost contact info for good friends when I got into partying when I was in college- I felt so bad later and felt they wouldn't want to hear from me- and now its been over ten years and so now its even worse if I tried to make contact- and my party friends were fake as hell) - I was already upset because she's moving in like 2 weeks now- I found out like about a month ago.
Despite her alternative lifestyle ( that I wasn't aware of at first- of having a sugar daddy to supplement her income,- which I then learned shes' been doing for several years now and has semi seriously joked that I should get one and I'm just like: no!) she seemingly was still a friend- I've had a supposedly good friend in the past that would give back handed comments, talk **** behind my back(which i heard later from mutual acquaintances after our friendship came to a bitter end) and be competitive and steal my ****-
Though this now former friend- she didn't do any of that.
I hung out with her the night before last-
Went to a play reading( rough draft- you give feed back at the end) which I'd never gone to one before but it was pretty fun, then we meandered around a bit, window shopped and got a snack- then I stopped by her place for a bit to try and help her remove some cactus pricks from her ankle she got in Arizona over the weekend. During which she left her charger and so I was using my phone to look up alternative methods for her before I had to leave( she doesn't own a pair of tweezers)
Long story short, I left her place thinking all was good, we had plans to hang out next week for my birthday-
Then nearly 24 hours later (last night) she hits me with some b.s. text message telling me how she knows I'm still talking to her ex and then I explain how I only had his number for my bf really who hit it off as friends this one night we all hung out. She then says how she read the texts the night before-and to not talk **** about me. I tell her that I accidentally text him a few weeks back because he has the same name name as one of my brothers.
That's when it hits me: she ****ing went thru my phone! ( I had handed to her so she could send the info to herself)
And then she crosses the ****ing line by saying ( nearly verbatim): how would 'you like it if I talked to your rapist ex??! How would that make you feel??!'
All the while I'm texting her how I didn't say anything negative about her- then I can believe she tried to even make the comparison, I can't believe she went there!
( she broke that poor guys heart( her ex) and seemingly didn't ever really care- I had already started to wonder about her because she has described herself as emotionally distant- I see now she's very shallow emotionally- )
So then she texts:
"How do we even know the rapists a rapist? There's only one side of the story!"
"Go be friends with ( insert her exes name) "
I forgot what else we had said, I had said she's twisting everything around-
I was livid- so upset!
I tell her off, saying how through her texts she's shown her true colors, and to have a nice life " you fake *** *****!"
She simply says: bye, traitor"
Luckily my bf was here for the whole thing- he reconfirms that I did nothing wrong, she is truly psycho and out to hurt me and planned the whole thing- she wanted to upset me to end the friendship- - he consoled me the rest of the night as I bawled my eyes out- I was even more sensitive at the time because I hadn't slept much but more so just so emotionally raw and hurt.
Why did she pretend everything was fine as I left her place the night before?
That is really upsetting because it shows that perhaps she did plan it and that she truly is fake, pretending everything is fine . . why not say something then?!
And even if you can find anything wrong with me talking to her ex still, what she did (went thru my phone) and then said all those horrible things!- I was just and still am so upset by this whole thing. We had known each other for nearly 2 years- the night before last we had (seemingly) really enjoyed ourselves- talked about how we can both just be our goofy selves around each other- I was going to really miss her when she moved, but now:good riddance!

Besides my bf and family and like one or two others, there's not really anyone I feel I can trust right now. (we both have been burned by bad friends- he only has a few good ones himself) It's going to be a long time before I feel like I can trust someone to be my friend again. I mean, in making any new friends(I have so few), the'll have to really prove themselves to me- because good/true friends (not fake) are really hard to find!


I wish I could not be so nice, at least I'm not a doormat like I used to be . . . ..

Some girls never grow up..I'm sorry

It all doesn't seem real to me now, I ant believe this happened- I had a few moments when I wanted to text her like always, share something with her that happened in my daily life and then I remembered. I've been a bit cranky as of late- short temper- which is not me- now I feel like I'm going into a more surreal state of mind . . . .

I had a similar situation happen to me..youre right to be upset i just wish i had some advice