[tory&zoee]

How do I handle my girlfriend talking to a guy friends


I've been dating this girl for about 4 months now, and it's been a roller coaster of a ride. Both good and bad.more good tho none the less things are great between us, when we're both happy, it's the most amazing time of my life, a time I don't want to let go. But when things aren't so great, it absolutely sucks and I wish it could go back to the happy times.

Over the past few weeks she's been talking to guy friends and adding them to facebook I haven't met them but she said they work together. Now I don't have a problem with her talking to guys, but what I do have a problem with is the the fact that She gets extremely upset with me every time I bring up how uncomfortable I am with it. And she keeps saying that there's nothing going on and that I have to get over it. If I can't then she's leaving me.

Every time they talk she'll tilt her phone a bit so I can't see, and I'm falling asleep, she'll move her screen so I can't see. She says she doesn't like people looking at her screen, but I just don't know.

I want to believe her, I want to trust her and I want to be okay with this. But I just can't. Maybe I'm jealous, maybe I'm insecure in my abilities to keep her as my girlfriend.

I just don't know how to handle this. I just want to be okay with it.

She's amazing and I love her. And I might be reading this so incorrectly that I'm being an idiot. But I don't want to lose her.

When you say you're falling asleep, do you mean that she's texting with guys late at night when the two of you are in bed together? If that's what you mean, I can see why you wouldn't be happy about it! Even if there's nothing "going on", it just seems disrespectful to you and your relationship.

But ask someone closer to your age. Text messaging wasn't around when I was your age.

[mountain human]

Insecurity is common in a relationship, especially in the early stages. As a man, I would like to point out that sometimes "guy friends" want to be more than that and would be perfectly happy to take your place, so their motives aren't always trustworthy, even if your partner is unaware of this.

But she is likely to get very angry if he tries to point this out.