relationship help!

Hello

It has been 2 years and over I have been with my girlfriend.

I am so emotionally exhausted .

days ago her daughter starts screaming at her mother then her mother screams back at her .
This has been going on for years her 21 year old daughter tried to commit suicide 3 times .
She was in a hospital for 2 weeks last time she tried to commit suicide .
But she refuses to see the psychiatrist.
Ive put up with so much with my girfriends family , the stories are a lot .its so hard .
I finally lost my temper and told the 21 year old daughter what I thought and her sister whom is
15 just closed the door on me .
I just can not finish the realtionship with her .I dont know why I can not say its finished .
Maybe .I dont want to be lonely . Maybe , I like to live like this .
I am so lost and looking for answers . please help anyone

I hate to break it to you but when it comes to her daughter her mother is really the only one who can get involved and insist on anything. If she won’t see the psychiatrist you can’t make her. Unfortunately with mental health it’s very common to resist psychiatry.

Its getting to much .
The 21 year old daughter is getting to much . it's effecting me.
She said to me " my mother can do better than you". my response was well its her decision if she wants to leave me.
then she replies "will you be sad " . I said "yes. but I will have to get over it ".

Some people overreact to things. The best thing to do is stay calm and relaxed and do what you think is best for the relationship. Maybe its best to stay friends. Although this is just an opinion. She is 16 years younger than you. The level of personality is distant between the 2 of you. If you think you can make it work i will not stop you. Although dating someone that many years younger will cause more problems over time.

It's finally over after 3 years she sent me this message.
Its going to be hard for me I prefer that its end our relationship which leads to nothing 3 years you speak no future you do not need me in your life you show it to me well I prefer to be alone with my worries you or someone will get your box and your business its not going to be hard for you i don't worry since yesterday i'm thinking it is the best solution yourself you told me i can't love you as you want i want a man present that i am her priority is not your case i kiss you

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It took 3 years & she is the one who finally had to end this? SMH

Is this the same woman from 2015? It sure took long but hopefully now it’s truly over

Not the same woman .

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You might need to start new threads. For me to understand if this woman is from 2015 or from 2018 I had to read the entire thread and newer members wouldn’t even know what’s this about. I suggest you start new threads instead of continuing old threads from 6 years ago.

As about this woman or the other one they sound horrible. Not relationship material

Dear Pierrek,

You are like me and attract abusive people. I was abused as a child and married an abusive person. Afterwards, I got divorced and have been only attracted to abusive men still. I know this has to stop. So, I am now no longer emotionally involved with men. I have sex with men but try not to get involved in their lives and vice versa. I encourage you to step back and analyze your past relationships and think about the reasons you are attracted to such women. I think you will see an underlying theme. I advise you to not move in with women you don't know or abuse you. Love yourself enough to stop getting emotionally involved with such people. Life is short. I encourage you to be on your own and enjoy life as much as possible. Not everybody is destined to be with other people. Some of us are better off alone if all you do is become attracted to abusive people. I've been there and done that. I am now enjoying my life. I sleep well, have a easy job, and am quite happy. Yes, sometimes I get lonely and seek men. But, so far, none of the men I've attracted are good to me. So, I don't worry about it and enjoy life by myself. I believe if you can only attract abusive people, then you are better off on your own. You can still have sex with women but don't become attached to them and invite them to move in with you. I hope this makes sense. Best wishes!!

Thank you for the replies . I keep.going into these realtionships it's not love but loneliness

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Originally Posted by pierrek Thank you for the replies . I keep.going into these realtionships it's not love but loneliness Envoyé de mon V2023 en utilisant Tapatalk

Get a dog....they solve the loneliness problem & they are not abusive

I've gone back with her . I need to try again .

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