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Mar 17, 2015, 06:28 AM
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I am struggling really hard between wanting to make my relationship with my BF last, and wanting physical intimacy with him. I often ask myself if I want the intimacy because I haven't had sex in over 3 years, or because I want to be closer to my BF. Is it lust I'm feeling, or love?
My last relationship fizzled out because we took things at what was seemingly a brisk pace. I don't want my current relationship to follow suit, its just this insatiable craving for wanting more than kissing that I can't seem to shake at the moment. What is the right thing to do?
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Mar 17, 2015, 06:55 AM
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That's really only something that you and he can decide. How long have you been seeing him now?
Some people wait quite a while before sex, others not so long. Having sex early on in a relationship doesn't mean that the relaionship won't work or last. Just as waiting to have sex doesn't mean that the relationship will work.
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Mar 17, 2015, 01:15 PM
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There are no rules. I doubt your relationship failed because you moved too fast. There must be more reasons. It could work or could fail based in many facts and circumstances. You could wait a bit. A month is not that long. Did you two talk about it? What does he think? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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Mar 17, 2015, 09:01 PM
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We've talked about it somewhat and agreed to take it slow, but god, it's just that it's been forever since I've been touched passionately by a man and I can't help but hunger for more and more.
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Mar 18, 2015, 02:30 AM
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I hear you. It's really up to you two. There are no universal rules Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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