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Apr 27, 2007, 06:45 PM
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Hey everyone, I haven't been here for years!!
I have some major relationship problems, and I need some help. My boyfriend and I have been together for a little more than 3 years. We've always had our problems off and on. I moved down to Texas from New York, as soon as I turned 18, to be with him. I love him so much! He means everything to me. I have this major problem with being jealous. I don't know why I am, and I hate it. I have the biggest fear in the world of losing him. We've been fighting a lot lately. Always over stupid little things. We've gotten to the point where its almost like, we're going to break up. I don't want to lose him. What do I do? How do I get over this jealousy its really getting in the way of things, and I don't know what to do. We have plans to visit my family, and he may not come, and if he doesn't...I'm wondering if I should stay there, even though I don't want to leave him. I love him, but I'm questioning so often whether or not he feels the same, and the jealousy isn't helping, it makes me think negative about everything. Sometimes we're in they same room and it feels like we're a million miles apart. Its killing me. HELP |
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Apr 27, 2007, 06:51 PM
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I think a lady who's spent 3 years of her life with a guy KNOWS what is the story...
 It doesn't sound good to me. While you may have a problem with jealousy, he may have a problem with commitment and loyalty, too. I know it would be very difficult, but why not go back (?) to playing hard to get, and see if that peaks his interest; if not, then I would guess his writing is on the wall. TC
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Apr 27, 2007, 07:04 PM
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Yeah. The thing is though its over little things that will make me jealous. I don't "think" he cheated on me. He says that he hasn't nor ever will. Yet I continue to think otherwise. Example...there's this girl, he claims to not even know. They go to the exact same college, leave at the same time, and she lives right across from us. Every little thing I wonder about is probably just a coincidence. But I don't know.
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May 08, 2007, 04:54 PM
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I'm with sky...
If you don't want to get in a fight then don't - just don't engage the argument - agree to disagree... If you don't think you can trust him - you may have to let him go...
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