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May 25, 2015, 02:40 PM
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I keep buying her flowers but we're just friends - am I being too stalky?
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May 25, 2015, 02:43 PM
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What does she say when you give her flowers?
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May 25, 2015, 03:00 PM
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She says thanks but I don't want to overstep my welcome.
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May 25, 2015, 03:29 PM
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How frequently are you giving her flowers?
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May 25, 2015, 04:56 PM
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One the other ones die - once a week.
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May 25, 2015, 05:13 PM
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Do you want more than a friendship with her? If so maybe your hoping that if you continue giving flowers she might be interested in more.
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May 25, 2015, 05:37 PM
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Does she seem happy that you give her flowers?
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May 25, 2015, 07:02 PM
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Hard to tell. She seems to enjoy them but I'm not getting excessively positive body language. I just know I get a kick out of it.
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May 26, 2015, 02:43 PM
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weekly flowers for a lady that is just a friend seems a bit excessive from a guy's standpoint. In my experience it would seem to imply that you're wanting more from her than friendship and if that's not what you want, yes I think it's too much. Even if you do want that with her without establishing something more intimate (relationship wise) with her first, weekly flowers are a bit over the top.
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May 27, 2015, 05:40 PM
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Yeah I suspected so - probably a subconscious attempt to get some companionship in my life which is sorely needed.
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May 27, 2015, 09:42 PM
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Yes, I think it's excessive. It sends the message that you are giving them because you want something from her in return (relationship, companionship, attention)-- like she "owes" you something. As a woman, I would find that extremely uncomfortable (and creepy). I'm sure you don't intend it that way, but that is how it probably appears to her.
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May 27, 2015, 11:33 PM
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Okay then - square one.....
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