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Old Jul 01, 2015, 02:11 PM
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I'm a male and what you feel is not true. I actually thought no woman would ever love me and now when I look at myself in the mirror I'm actually pretty good looking. And there have been women who loved me. It's all beliefs in the head. It has no basis in reality. Based on physical looks, every man has different taste so no matter what you look like, there are many men out there that like that. Based on personality, no matter what you're like, again, there are many men out there that like that. Remember opposites attract and you ought to have an opposite wouldn't you say?? Don't worry. You're pretty both inside and outside for at least thousands (potentially millions) of men out there. Whoever doesn't like you, forget them,, they're probably just wierd.

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I see what you're saying but no one ANYWHERE prefers unbelievably crooked, damn near rotten teeth. I have VERY severe issues and I don't believe for one moment that anyone would be able to overlook them. Thanks anyway though.

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Old Jul 01, 2015, 02:14 PM
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Did you talk to your dentist about it? What does he or she say? Why are your teeth rotten? I do understand crooked teeth are upsetting for you.

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Old Jul 01, 2015, 03:00 PM
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Did you talk to your dentist about it? What does he or she say? Why are your teeth rotten? I do understand crooked teeth are upsetting for you.

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It's a hereditary thing. Ugh. I just hate everything about my life. I'm upset about this every day. I just want to look decent.

On top of all of this bs, I liked this guy and now I'm 99% sure he likes someone else. I just can't take this.
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Old Jul 01, 2015, 03:35 PM
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If you're that upset about it, why not make the effort to see a dentist?

Do you see a therapist to work on your self-esteem?

My cousin also has rotten teeth and she has a boyfriend, so it is possible.

Since I posted earlier about struggling with dating myself, I will say that keeping a positive attitude and putting yourself out there can sometimes work. I just met someone on Sunday, for the first time in awhile. Who knows if it will lead anywhere, but it might.
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Old Jul 01, 2015, 10:37 PM
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My whole family has bad teeth. Well not rotten as we go to a dentist but they are just bad. I don't have a single tooth that doesn't have filling or a crown or a bridge etc etc I don't eat sweets I brush and floss and go to a dentist regularly

My poor niece is wearing braces right now as she has extra teeth on her gum. Like for real above normal teeth there are extras.
Bottom line bad teeth are common

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Old Jul 01, 2015, 10:38 PM
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It's a hereditary thing. Ugh. I just hate everything about my life. I'm upset about this every day. I just want to look decent.

On top of all of this bs, I liked this guy and now I'm 99% sure he likes someone else. I just can't take this.

Well there will always be people who won't like us. As we might not like someone else too

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Old Jul 02, 2015, 01:07 AM
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Okay. I'm a total baby who isn't strong enough to accept what everyone else does gracefully. Okay. Thanks for the help. I just don't think I can ever see it that way.
Thanks for this!
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Old Jul 02, 2015, 06:41 PM
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I see what you're saying but no one ANYWHERE prefers unbelievably crooked, damn near rotten teeth. I have VERY severe issues and I don't believe for one moment that anyone would be able to overlook them. Thanks anyway though.
I'm going to somewhat disagree with some of the advice above. It's all well and good to say that people should love you just as you are, but the reality is that looks do matter, especially if how you look makes you feel bad about you. Pretty girls have an easier time attracting dates than not so pretty girls. You're not wrong to believe that. Talk to a dentist about what can be done. At this point, just inquire.
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