[david1998]

i am in a relationship with a wonderful woman that i love very much but recently we came across a problem. we have been going out for 4 months now and everything has been great until just the other day. i went over to her house to see her like she asked me to and when i got there she went off on me bad. she came outside and started yelling at me asking why i didnt call before i came over and that she wanted to be alone and to be left alone and for me to leave, so i did. i called her the next day and she wouldnt say anything on the phone to me. i asked her what was wrong and she said that she didnt have anything to say to me and that she dont want anything to do with me and so on. this i did not understand as i said before things have been great until then... i got ahold of her the next day to find out if our relationship was over or what and she said she didnt know.. she said that she felt that anxiety was comming on and she dont know how to deal with it. so i ensured her that i would give her space and time and that when she was ready for her to call me that no matter how long it would take that i would be there. please help me ... she is the most wonderful woman in the world to me and i care and love her more than anything in the whole world. she informed me that she is bipolar and that she used to take paxil but when she started to feel better then she quit taking it. what can i do to help her and for me to understand? i dont want to lose the love of my life... thank you. concerned...

[CarmenMCL]

my husband and I have gone thru this my biploar didn't show until we were married for a year. All I can say is be strong and there for her this is a hard time for her and it you as well
Lend an ear. With the right meds she will feel better.

[kitty]

David: It sounds as though you are dealing with this the best you can and she is lucky to have you. Hopefully, she will go back on her meds and start feeling better again. I don't think there is much more you can do than what you are already doing. I am sure knowing you are there for her and that you are supportive is helping her.