Why aren't other queer women interested in me?

I would not be put of by the intellectual part but rather the cutesy part (which sounds kinda generic).

Also the bit about three careers and your thoughts.... it sounds more like you are looking for advice rather than for a partner.

Also not having found the path yet is kinda off putting, because if you don't know what to study and what to do, how can you be sure to stick with the partner you find?

Men probably don't mind as much, they are looking for "now" relationships, but I think women generally want something with a future.