Privacy within a relationship

I wouldn't build a relationship on "don't ask don't tell". IMHO that sounds a bit dysfunctional. Relationships are built on trust and honesty. This isn't it.

Right, well then we get back to my original problem of I was merrily chirping away about my psychiatry and therapy appointments for the past two months while my partner was keeping his private. So I figure in the future I'll keep mine private too. We both know each other has issues and what they are. No need to talk about the small details.