[searchingforhelp]

I've this guy I've known for almost 4 years, and have been in an on and off relationship several times. Especially this year we started our relationship again 'cause he asked me to be his gf and I still liked him, but then as time passed he barely texted me so we naturally started acting like friends at some point. One day I texted him and he suddenly told me to not text him anymore, so I asked him if he's alright and he said no, then he said that "i have a new girlfriend and a son." So I said something like "what happened?" He told me text him later so he could explain so I did. Then he said that I got his friend in trouble. His friend gave him his old phone but it had a tracker on it. So his friend's gf thought he was cheating on her with me and kicked him out of the house. Then a few days later he got himself a new gf and his old one got so furious she went over to his mom's house and made a scene. That's what I heard from my on and off ex bf on the phone. So I said okay, and then we were talking this and that and hung up. Two hours later some girl texted me through his phone saying "My bf and I are having a baby and seeing your name popping up annoys me every time. Let this be the last one. Thanks." Of course I was confused since I thought everything was over and why would she use my friend's phone to text me? So I asked him what's it all about and he told me that it was his friend's gf and that I should ignore it. 4 weeks has passed of not texting each other and yesterday I tried calling him to his ipod. Then some girl answered so I thought it was his sister since he told me that the ipod was hers so I said sorry and hung up. A minute later a number that I don't know of called me so I answered, it was the same person. Turns out she was my EX BOYFRIEND's girlfriend, and they're having a BABY, and the text that I received after talking on the phone with my ex boyfriend, was actually about HIM and HER. So I told her that I thought his friend is having a baby with his girlfriend and she said no and asked if I want to talk to him so I said yes. When she tried to put him on the phone he was like "what? Who? Oh what the ****! Just ****ing ignore!!" And hung up. I'm in huge shock right now. I do think he was afriad to admit the fact that he has a baby 'cause when I asked him if he's alright he said no which led him to lie to me but I feel like he just stabbed me in the back and feel betrayed. After 4 years of unconditional support and care this is what I get in return??I loved him so much and I still do and now I don't even know what to do.

[TishaBuv]

Leave him alone and feel sorry for the girl having his baby.

[divine1966]

Well to all honesty if you two aren't a couple it is not wrong for him to move on. 4 years on and off doesn't sound healthy.

Also he did tell you to not text him as he has a gf and a son. You still did.

He then later changed his story. Don't know why he did that but I would stop calling and texting him and just move on the way he did.

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[~Christina]

Drama Drama Drama ... Be happy that your not having his child.. as obviously he isn't the best choice in a partner.

Yes it hurts you.. But do remember if it was meant to be, you and him would have not been " off and on " for the last 4 years.

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[JustJenny]

You were not seeing eachother for months and communicating using texts only? Why do you even need him as a friend?