[mommy3gbg]

I have been with my husband for 7 years. We have three kids and two are in school. He works 3rd and I’m currently finishing school. I personally do everything right in our relationship from being trustworthy to loyal to faithful and loving caring etc.. However he will not. He struggled with a drug abuse problem but not anymore he overcame it but recently he has been accusing me of cheating and its really taking a toll on me. I’m scared to death that he will go back to these drugs and its tearing me apart. What I went through for years and finally getting what I wanted now all of a sudden I am a cheater? He finds little things from footprints in the snow??? To when we have sexual relations it feels different??? To the most obscured things. I am thinking about ending this and leaving without three children because its not right for their mommy to be upset 24/7 and always on edge about stuff. I/We need help desperately.

[Trippin2.0]

You may want to point out that he comes across as extremely paranoid (his evidence is all bogus) and might want some help with that.


I know you don't want to hear it, but as an ex gf of an addict, its only fair I point out that drug use can induce paranoia...


You probably don't want to be sticking your head in the sand right now.


I'm really sorry you're going through this, I did too, and it was not pretty. (I'm very "volatile" when wrongly accused)

[healingme4me]

Why leave the kids with him? He can shape up or ship out. Why not that be an option?

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