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Originally Posted by seeker1950
It's hard to find someone at ANY age. You're feeling a crunch of time because of your age, re/family, having children, etc. But, believe me, there are much worse things than being alone. Don't compromise in terms of what you desire in a relationship
This fella, who was supportive of the widow...in my humble opinion, your instincts were right to be concerned.
Don't second-guess yourself on your responses/instincts. It made you feel insecure, and a loving relationship should not do that to you. If it didn't feel right, then, it wasn't.
I sense that you are going back and questioning and even berating yourself for your emotional comments to him. Don't do that. If a man can't handle emotional confrontation in a dating scenario, what would it be like in a lifelong commitment!
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I am, I do question it. I put in another post that trying not to overanalyze every corner felt like trying to keep my eyes open without blinking . it's just a terrible feeling because logically you know its maladaptive but emotionally .. it's a reflex.
im just shaking my head right now. :/
Apr 08, 2016, 07:14 PM
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