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Old Apr 18, 2016, 07:49 PM
galeckifan galeckifan is offline
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I am so upset, this friend from church is leaving and applying for a religious ministry school out of state in the fall and then right after that is moving out of state to be with her boyfriend who is in the military and is stationed there next. Like forever. On top of that, she hasnt been going to small group and wont be going for the next month because shes in a play, and then she has a wedding to go to this summer that she is going to instead of going on this church road trip. Apparently the dates have already been set so she knows she wont be able to go on the trip. So I will never be able to see her ever again after this summer and on top of that she wont even be going on the church road trip which will be the last opportunity to go on the road trip with her ever! She said she wished she could go but had a close childhood friends wedding that same weekend.When I asked if she would ever be going on the trip again or if I would ever see her again she said ehh probably, we will see, I mean Im going to be so busy with my boyfriend aka future husband and we cant go on trips with the church or see each other forever. Like it was no big deal! Omg! I am so upset and she doesnt even care that she wont ever see me again.
I was just wondering if it would be unreasonable to ask the pastor to change the date of the trip (in August) so that she can go since this is the last chance I have at going on a trip with her and I wont ever see her again. And I cant drive so its not like I can visit her either. Do you think I could ask her if we could plan a road trip of our own with some people from church?
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Old Apr 18, 2016, 08:11 PM
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I don't see why you can't ask if the pastor can change the event so she can go. Do you have her number, you could always text her, send letters, email like it my not be face to face but I don't see why all contact has to seize with her. In all that I wish you luck and maybe when you have more money someday you could meet her at her religious ministry school and just hang. Good luck
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Old Apr 18, 2016, 09:08 PM
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Old Apr 18, 2016, 10:24 PM
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Keep in touch with her by email, text, phone. You never know what might happen down the road.

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