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Old May 15, 2016, 07:09 PM
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So, this guy I met on a dating site and I have been texting since Wednesday and his last text was Friday night. He hasn't said a word since. I have texted him yesterday evening and today around 3PM, but nothing. Nada. I don't think he's interested anymore. I don't expect him to text me back any time soon.
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Old May 15, 2016, 07:13 PM
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Send him à text and ask him if everything is ok ? Thén just wait of
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Old May 15, 2016, 07:16 PM
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Okay. I sent him a text saying "Is everything okay, you've been awfully quiet."
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Old May 15, 2016, 07:21 PM
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Old May 15, 2016, 07:29 PM
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No, I am sorry but it is likely you will not hear from him again. I know it's hard at first, but try to play the numbers game.
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Old May 15, 2016, 07:31 PM
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Typical...just typical...and we had so much in common too. I hate constantly being disappointed....it's getting beyond tiring at this point. Why do I even bother interacting with people if all they do is disappoint me?
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Old May 15, 2016, 07:37 PM
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Their is à chat on top of the page use That , their are nice people in their , carry on chatting dint give up

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Old May 15, 2016, 07:45 PM
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Nah...I would rather not use this site's chat. I have my reasons. I've given up a long time ago, to be honest. No one I've ever met or known has proven to be trustworthy.
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Old May 15, 2016, 09:25 PM
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It's hard to tell what happened. What was the last text about? Like a discussion about something or you asked him a question? etc typically if the person isn't replying for that long it's either they aren't interested or something happened to them.

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Old May 15, 2016, 09:42 PM
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Divine, he and I talked about meeting on Friday, and then he asked for a pic and I sent him a selfie and he didn't respond....
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Old May 15, 2016, 10:35 PM
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Gee. What the heck. What an idiot. So rude of him

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Old May 16, 2016, 02:39 AM
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Gee. What the heck. What an idiot. So rude of him

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Story of my life, and I don't understand why. Guess I'm not meant to find trustworthy people.
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A break of communication for that long so soon is never a good sign ...
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Old May 16, 2016, 03:13 AM
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A break of communication for that long so soon is never a good sign ...
So true...hence why I don't trust anyone anymore...or expect anyone to be nice to me. People wonder why I'm such a damn recluse...well, it's because of constantly interacting with people like him....
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Yeah he sounds like a bit of a jerk but that doesn't mean all men should be painted with the same brush ....
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Old May 16, 2016, 03:17 AM
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Yeah he sounds like a bit of a jerk but that doesn't mean all men should be painted with the same brush ....
I'm not doing that, I'm just abandoning all hope of any good within humanity as a whole....I'm better off with dogs and cats and such....unconditional love and whatnot.
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I'm not doing that, I'm just abandoning all hope of any good within humanity as a whole....I'm better off with dogs and cats and such....unconditional love and whatnot.
That's very black and white
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Old May 16, 2016, 03:23 AM
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That's very black and white
Well, I have very black and white thought patterns....I can't grasp the idea of a grey area. It's beyond me.
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Old May 16, 2016, 03:26 AM
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I get it. I really do.

I can go through patterns of extreme black and white thinking.

It's only usually when I'm out of a situation that hindsight tells me my black and white thinking was rather nuts.
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Old May 16, 2016, 03:28 AM
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I think it's because I fall in the Autism Spectrim. I am most likely high functioning, so no one really believes I am in any way on that, so it's difficult to get people to understand me and why I am the way I am.
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I was once classified as BPD ... now the diagnosis has changed to just some BPD traits as I no longer fit the criteria (that's where my black / white thinking comes from)
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Wow that's pretty terrible. I'm sorry. Just try to remember that not all guys are assholes; it's just that women don't want us nice guys.
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Old May 16, 2016, 04:39 AM
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Wow that's pretty terrible. I'm sorry. Just try to remember that not all guys are assholes; it's just that women don't want us nice guys.


Women very much want nice guys.
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Old May 16, 2016, 04:40 AM
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Artchic if you think you might have ASD I suggest you see your doctor and ask to be evaluated and diagnosed. I would not self diagnose.

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Old May 16, 2016, 06:20 AM
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Sorry to hear it didn't work out.
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