Always my fault

I cant stand my family anymore. whatever goes wrong with me they suddenly blame me as if i could have done it better, differently, more rightly.
as if it was. my fault.

i have stomach ache? my fault.
i have head ache? my fault.
i dont have friends? my fault.
i am depressed? my fault.

im f*cking tired of being blamed for every thing all the time. fed up. done.

but there's no way i can go living somewhere else.

i'm sick of everything.

What happened since last time we talked and was my feedback, and that of others, useful and if not, why?

Obviously, you got into a conflict with family members, but you don't tell us who, how and why.

I don't know what to say.

Excuse me, i apologize, but i dont know what precedent thread you're referring to.

yes, i had an argument with all my family (parents and brother), all of them blaming me for being sick with my stomach. they come up with a million things i should have done to prevent that instead of just accepting sometimes i get stomach ache. why always blaming me?

was my first post of this threat really that unclear? English is not my first language, so i apologize for making it unclear.

No, it was not unclear.

From what I can understand, you weren't feeling well, got into an argument with your family, and they turned things on you and made you feel guilty about how you were feeling. Is that correct?

I'm sorry you are feeling this way. Sometimes family is this way, you live in close proximity with other people and there is just fighting and bickering. I'm not sure what reason they may have for blaming you for a stomach ache, but it sounds like you were looking for empathy and validation from family and did not receive it. That feels bad. I hope you are feeling better, soon.

Does your family blame you for problems you are facing or they blame you for everything that goes wrong?

Being told you're responsible for depression is ********.

We don't ask for it.

My ex used to tell me it was all in the mind and that there was no place for antidepressants in this world *rolls eyes*

I think you are clear. That must be stressful. Sorry you have such family. How often do you see them? . I don't know how old are you but can you move out? Or at least plan for it? They sound toxic.

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