[black-roses]

I can't belive how isolated I am I basically have no friends I hang out with no one clearly I must have a bad way of communicating woth people. Now I have to get **** from my mother because i communicate with guys online. I am alone i am bored, alone suffering fron my social isolation and then you make me paranoid about every person I meet and talk too. Yeah, your protecting me but you sure as hell teaching me the wrong way to deawith this. I can't just run away from everyone because there's no logic in that? what the **** do you want me to do? You complain I sit down all day but when i try to communicate you tell me they could hurt me. Thank you your so helpful you piece of ****. I am suffering and your not helping me.

[Molinit]

In all sincerity, if I were paying for your roof, food and a vacation to Portugal and you sat on the internet all day posting about what a **** I am, I'd probably put you out on the street.

What are you doing to become independent of your family?

[divine1966]

I don't believe your mother isolating you. Maybe she thinks Communicating to guys online might not be something you need to spend your days on. Have you applied to get a job?

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[Nammu]

Have you thought about going to a DBT group to learn some skills that might help you move on?

[~Christina]

I say limit your internet time to maybe 1 hour a day .. then go out ! apply for jobs ! that will help you make irl friends.

[kipper-bang]

Originally Posted by black-roses

I can't belive how isolated I am I basically have no friends I hang out with no one clearly I must have a bad way of communicating woth people. Now I have to get **** from my mother because i communicate with guys online. I am alone i am bored, alone suffering fron my social isolation and then you make me paranoid about every person I meet and talk too. Yeah, your protecting me but you sure as hell teaching me the wrong way to deawith this. I can't just run away from everyone because there's no logic in that? what the **** do you want me to do? You complain I sit down all day but when i try to communicate you tell me they could hurt me. Thank you your so helpful you piece of ****. I am suffering and your not helping me.

Frankly, I fully agree with Monlnit. You don't know how lucky you are having such a caring mother and all you do in return is make her life miserable. If you were my daughter I would have thrown you out by now.

This is a classic case of biting the hand that feeds you. How about thinking of someone other than yourself even just for one day - you may enjoy yourself!?

[black-roses]

My father is paying my trip but honestly in my head it feels like she wants me to change my relationships because she doesn't approve of them. What I am so angry about is she doesn't know them and she passes such harsh judgement on them finding at least one trait to complain to me about. I have been asking her daily what she wants me to do and I have been following through with it. She asks me to put clothes on the line I do it. Today I asked her what she wanted me to do but right now she is eating. Basically I have to ask her because she doesn't trust I will do anything correct unless she asks me to do it even then there is always a fault with it. I feel quite discouraged because i don't do it perfectly the first time and then she acts like she has to teach me how to do everything. Even things like bedmaking, I have been shown hundreds of times but whenever I do it and it literally looks the same as when she does it but it is never really good enough. I am starting to feel like a retard and that really frustrates me.

[black-roses]

Its not that she is socially isolating me I just don't see why she has to be so bitter about my friends and see the worst in everyone. It really hurts my feelings.

[divine1966]

If these are just men you chatting up online they most likely aren't your friends and you have never met them. Your mother knows what other things you do online so she clearly worries about you

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If you mother is aware of your previous online activities, she is perfectly correct in monitoring what you are doing online so long as you are living in her home.

[Trippin2.0]

Originally Posted by divine1966

If these are just men you chatting up online they most likely aren't your friends and you have never met them. Your mother knows what other things you do online so she clearly worries about you

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I agree wholeheartedly with Divine.


Maybe your mom would be less worried or intrusive if you made offline friends and she gets to meet them.

[avlady]

i agree with everyone here