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Old Jun 11, 2016, 10:58 PM
scar12346 scar12346 is offline
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First a bit of a back story: My first official girlfriend was engaged to a man (I am gender queer but in this relationship I was female). She cheated on him with another guy and of course I was in the picture as well. I broke up with her because I barely saw her. But me breaking up with her she broke up with her fiancee and found another guy. She even told me "I am so happy with him" which kind of led me to break up.
Yesterday I went out with her. The whole atmosphere was filled with flirting. Because it was 3 pm and it was very hot we went to her place. We bought beer and she got buzzed, I was completely fine but acted along with her. She started saying that she liked a girl but wasn't sure if that girl likes her. I knew it was about me it was all in her eyes, so I said "maybe that girl likes you back"
And then I said "You know, I like a girl as well" some minutes pass of us watching adventure time while drinking beer and she said to go to her room (where she has her piano) and that she would play me a song. I sat on her bed, she played what she played and I put up some pictures of Italy so she can look at them. By now her head was on my legs and she just stood there watching pictures and she was so cute.. anyways. She said to me to lay down and I did. She then asked me a lot of questions about my crush. There was a point of us cuddling. And then I said "Okay, it's you" minutes pass of silent cuddling and she then asked "Do you like movies" I responded with no and the she asked again "What about books?" I said yes and she said the cutest thing ever "Well my crush likes books" and then we kissed and my heart melted away.
But.. am I making a mistake dating her again? Because last time my depression moved from moderate to severe, I was at a point where I would do whatever just so I can go away. I don't know if we break up again if it will be the same or worse.

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Old Jun 12, 2016, 09:31 AM
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One option might be to think of this strictly as a crush and not think "relationship" just yet. Enjoy it day to day for what it is on that day. Observe with interest what develops, but keep a reserve until time reveals whether it blossoms into a relationship or fades as a crush.
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Old Jun 12, 2016, 12:07 PM
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Just be careful. She seems to be moving from one relationship to another and cheats on people. I don't want you to get hurt

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