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Old Jul 10, 2016, 09:39 AM
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Greetings everyone!
Well, let's keep it short. Last year i met this girl who i KIND of found atractive. i didn't like her that much at first sight, BUT as i got to know this girl, her personallity got me crazy. Unfortunely, i realized this EXACTLY the last day i saw her (arond like 2 months ago). So she got an operation and i could only message her. I seems she doesn't text that often, but i almost always get an answer, even last Monday she "started" the conversation (and i was happy as hell). The thing is... She's like 4 years older than me, but when i met her, she tought i was 3 years older (myself), so i don't really care about it, but i know most girls do. Besides, the real thing here is... Last Wednesday i texted her about the idea of hanging out... AND is Sunday already... AND no response hehe.... My "last hope" (By calling it in a way) is that the message appears as "unseen". I really appreciate her friendship and she's a really nice girl who deserves to be with a really good man (I'm not saying me XD, but i'd love to be with her).

Any points of view? Thanks for your attention everyone

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Old Jul 10, 2016, 10:23 AM
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It could be that she didn't see your message. I'd contact her one more time and then if she doesn't reply after second message , accept it and move on. Good luck

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Old Jul 10, 2016, 10:33 AM
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It could be that she didn't see your message. I'd contact her one more time and then if she doesn't reply after second message , accept it and move on. Good luck

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I've thought about that hehe. But i try not to bomb anyone (incluiding friends and familly) with messages.
How long do you think i should wait?

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Old Jul 10, 2016, 12:22 PM
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Send one today and if you don't hear from her by tomorrow she probably isn't going to reply.

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Old Jul 10, 2016, 12:27 PM
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Send one today and if you don't hear from her by tomorrow she probably isn't going to reply.

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THanks for the replies mah friend.
Last question (hopefully), how do you suggest i should write down that message?

I mean... What could i say/ask?
Sorry if i sound dumb or something, but i really want to be carefull in this situation and your point of view seems helpfull (please don't take this the wrong way)
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Old Jul 10, 2016, 04:36 PM
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I'd say that I never heard back from her and wonder if she wants to hang out

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