Sister is jealous of our mother giving me attention

Well I'm on holiday but it has been a bit of a strain having to put up with subtle insults and remarks thrown at me. She can't find her phone and mum doesn't stop doing what she is doing she is "like if it was for stupid Vanessa you'd help" obviously she is jealous of the attention I get from my mother but that isn't my fault. To be honest she had to insult my body because it was a way to show her jealously and frustration. What is so annoying about this is she is not forward about her issues and instead goes about it in an insulting away instead of telling us what she is feeling. So most of the time I have to sit there rolling my eyes in my head thinking why the hell is she having a go at me what is her problem? It seems like there is a deeper root cause but with her not being direct it makes all of us go around in circles and she was ends up on exhausting mum and ends up pushing her farther away from her. Then that aggravates her farther and because mentally in her mind it is my fault because I am the one taking mum away from her she just has another go at me. It's one of those situation's where I am frustrated and want to get away from my mother so Daniela leaves me alone.

Your sisters jealousy is not warranted. Your mother throws insults and hurls abuse at you. Nothing there to get jealous over at all.

:/ plus I feel a lot resentment that she blamed me and Daniela for never leaving dad which is stupid and I honestly don't want someone that blames me for everything. Plus Daniela doesn't hear the insults only sees her good side so to her it appears as if everything is perfect with mum and I am just an abusive *****. Also this situation with mum has completely ruined motherhood filled me with a lot of resentment and disgust towards it. I just want to throw every child and baby in the bin...

It sounds like some childish sibling rivalry. Judging from your history and your relationships with your family, you need to get out on your own and grow as a adult. Get some help from a therapist about your issues with your family and men. Focus on yourslef

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