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Old Aug 22, 2016, 10:02 AM
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I have had so many people tell me to move out because my mother isn't letting me live my life. However to be honest I don't think I have the will or the strength to move out. I don't want to lose her I have become so enmeshed and so used to her comfort that like a baby I cry and can't soothe myself without it. I feel like if I leave I will lose something deep from my heart I can't leave her. To be honest I know it's wrong to turn back on my own needs and wants but she is all I want and need. So it will be hard to make me turn away from all I know even though it is toxic. Only people who have been in my situation will understand just where I am coming from...

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Old Aug 22, 2016, 09:48 PM
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Therapy?

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Old Aug 23, 2016, 01:31 AM
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Based on your numerous threads ....... You and your mother are huge triggers for each other , I don't think either one of you are more at fault
than the other.

Children grow up and do indeed need to leave the nest and start to make there own way, your moving out and being able to make your own choices is not going to ruin your love for your mom nor her love for you.

Therapy.... Work on building your own life skills.

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