Just Sounding Off...

My ex, is moving out this coming Friday. I am really happy about this given the facts of our past relationship. Right now, we are right back where we started, almost 8 years ago. If, I were to take him back (which is not about to happen) I would be right back to supporting him mostly. He only works about 25 hrs./wk. I work full-time, and support myself fine with or without him. I am better off without him, because, then I don't have the added stress of shelling out umpteen dollars, to support him. The entire time we were together, i paid most, if not all of the bills. I'm talking almost everything. He would drink most of his money away. He has cheated on me at least twice, that I know of for sure, many more times possibly. With men, and women. The men, I am not as sure about, although there have been things brought to my attention, by more than one person. I do not question this any longer. We're not together, and his sexual preferences, are none of my business.

He also, made me quite uncomfortable, sexually. There were things I absolutely did not want to do in bed, that I told him, i did not want to do, that he would continuously pressure me into doing. I cannot ever allow myself to be this vulnerable, or needy again.

The next time I fall in love, it will be with someone that can be the man that i truely need, and want. I'll never settle for anyone, ever again.

That's it. Just had to get it off my chest. Thanks, everyone who reads this.

Peace and Love
Bri7

Good for you Bri7.....make those commitments to yourself and set your standards high! You So Deserve the best!

Hugss
sabby