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#1
Jan 31, 2017, 01:53 AM
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Hurting ...
I couldn't even get the words out my mouth for the Justice of the Peace when he made me say an oath I was crying so much. I think my ex is finally satisfied. Broken. May he enjoy his drinks with his mistress tonight. *Cheers* 
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#2
Jan 31, 2017, 03:10 AM
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Sorry Hitch, I truly am. Take care, and be kind to yourself.
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I Don't Care What You Think Of Me...I Don't Think Of You At All.CoCo Chanel. |
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#3
Jan 31, 2017, 03:11 AM
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 So so sorry
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I think I need help 'cause I'm drowning in myself. It's sinking in, I can't pretend that I ain't been through hell. I think I need help---Papa Roach |
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#4
Jan 31, 2017, 05:23 AM
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I am so sorry, it's tough, but you know it's for the best. Now you can heal. Sending you hugs
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| Crazy Hitch
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#5
Jan 31, 2017, 07:34 AM
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I'm sorry for your pain. Hopefully it will be better for you in the long run.
Signing divorce papers is heartbreaking but will get easier with time. I found reaching out to others to be a big help.
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Bipolar I, Depression, GAD Meds: Zoloft, Zyprexa, Ritalin "Each morning we are born again. What we do today is what matters most." -Buddha  Last edited by gayleggg; Jan 31, 2017 at 11:17 AM. |
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#6
Jan 31, 2017, 10:45 AM
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Even if you're better off, as many people here believe, I know that doesn't change the fact that it hurts
 Time is the only thing that will help you to get through this. Take the time to grieve the loss of your marriage, give yourself that. I promise it gets better.
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| Crazy Hitch, Grandessa, IrisBloom
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#7
Jan 31, 2017, 10:48 AM
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Sending you comforting bear hugs hun.
I'm so sorry you're hurting, please look after yourself. 
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| Crazy Hitch
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#8
Jan 31, 2017, 10:58 AM
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Sorry that you're hurting. Much hugs and love to you.
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| Crazy Hitch
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#9
Jan 31, 2017, 11:03 AM
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I'm sorry you're hurting so much. It will get better now..
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| Crazy Hitch
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#10
Jan 31, 2017, 11:07 AM
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Hitch I have been in your shoes and it hurts years later it still hurts some. Be kind to yourself and reach out to us when you feel alone or the hurting is to much. One of us will be there to catch you
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#11
Jan 31, 2017, 02:24 PM
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I'm so sorry.
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| Crazy Hitch
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#12
Jan 31, 2017, 03:22 PM
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Sorry for your pain. Things WILL get better. You just have to believe...
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“Then what is your advice to new practitioners”? “The same as for old practitioners! Keep at it “. Ajahn Chah Bipolar 1 PTSD Social Anxiety Disorder Panic Attacks Parkinsonism Dissociative Amnesia Abilify 15mg Viiibryd 40mg Clonzapam.05mg x2 Depakote 1500mg Gabapentin 300mg x 3 Wellbutrin 300mg Carbidopa/Levodopa 25mg-100mg x 3 |
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#13
Jan 31, 2017, 03:52 PM
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I'm so sorry your hurting, I went through the same thing. It will in fact get better. I promise.
Loving hugs
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#14
Jan 31, 2017, 08:02 PM
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I just seperated from my husband in October after 18 years of marriage. My heart is breaking for you. There's nothing to say to make it better. I don't know how you ended up here and I don't care just know that I literally feel your pain.
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| Crazy Hitch
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#15
Jan 31, 2017, 08:29 PM
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Sorry CH to hear of your sadness and loss. It must be challenging to go through.
Wishing you strength to get through this rough period.
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Super Moderator Community Support Team "Things Take Time" |
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#16
Jan 31, 2017, 08:51 PM
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I'm sorry... stay strong
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#17
Jan 31, 2017, 09:23 PM
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I'm sorry that you are hurting. *hugs*
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Jan 31, 2017, 10:08 PM
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I'm sorry. |
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#19
Feb 01, 2017, 04:27 AM
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Thanks everyone.
Your words of encouragement and compassion make a difference to me.
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#20
Feb 02, 2017, 06:53 AM
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We hurt more loosing what we wish something had been than what it REALLY was.
You summarized perfectly what is hurting you the most: Quote:
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 Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this. Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018 |
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#21
Feb 02, 2017, 07:57 AM
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I think the legal aspects of the marriage contract clouds what marriage really is.
It's a promise that two people make to each other at that point in time , to love , cherish etc.........They should leave out the " till death do us part" , since you only have a 50% chance of that happening. We tend to think of our partner in this contract will feel the same about us forever. That's just not reality. We do not OWN someone else like property. Things change over time. People change. My experience is that if I invested as much into my own personal growth , as I did into someone else's or the marriage for that matter , I would have been well prepared for what was to come. Blindsided. Totally caught off guard. Total powerlessness. It hurt. It hurt so much I almost went over the cliff. Then I was forced into the concept of REALITY and out of the dream world I was living in. Being forced to face my own shortcomings , I grew to the point of at least being able to understand how to put myself before anyone else. Not in a selfish way but in a survival way. It takes time. It takes help from others. It takes work. That hurt will always be there. It's like losing a loved one to death. Hang on tight to life. You will get through this. You will prevail. God bless you in your journey.
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| Crazy Hitch, Grandessa
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#22
Feb 04, 2017, 11:52 AM
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Hugs to you!
I know it will get better as you did what was best for you! |
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Feb 05, 2017, 04:16 PM
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#24
Feb 05, 2017, 05:11 PM
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Realize grief is part of the separating process, and it's a one time thing. You may have sad memories, but you will recover and be better than you were before it happened. I cried at my divorce too. 
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#25
Feb 06, 2017, 05:13 AM
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