Controlling roommates

So my story is kind of good and bad, It started when I was in a very abusive relationship. When I was planning my escape my friends offered me a place that was far from him (in another state) So I took it until I could get on my feet again.Now my friends aren't young they are infact old enough to be my parents, I get along with them to a point. But the issue is shortly and I mean the day after I moved in I met someone, a friend of her son. We talked for about a month and a half hung out a couple times, and I ended up pregnant (currently nine months) Well he stayed and began staying over more and more, and when his cousin's moved in to where he was staying, he didn't return there. So we both began to pay rent here, We are all on disability so very limited income. My friends ended up getting a pay cut due to someone not paying attention a year ago at the soical security office. To help them out more we agreed to split all the house hold bills three ways.

Now this is where it gets bad. They started to change the bills, upgrading unneeded things like the internet without telling us, they even buy movies on demand without saying anything. So all this is making our cable bill nearly 300 a month. They have begun to fight with my boyfriend on a hourly bases, her husband will even make comments about him when he's not even here.

To make it all worse she's got grandbabies that she has over here weeks at a time, offically they do not live here, yet they tell everyone they do. She has begun to put these little girls in beaauty pageants, now this is where I get annoyed. These pageants cost nearly 200 a child, that's 400 a month because she will not go one month without putting them in one, she has one lined up every month until march right now.

We live in louisiana and we're effected by the flood in augest, we did not lose our home but she almost lost a thirteen year old cat, because she took in flooded anmails and one nearly killed her cat. With my emotional support animal (unlicensed letter pending) and her dog and her husbands dog we had thirteen dogs inside the house.

Now she took in these dogs without saying anything to anyone before hand, but guess who was getting yelled at to putt them out, feed them, clean up after them. My boyfriend. These is minor cause the dogs are gone (they adopted two which my boyfriend still takes care of) But now she has yet again done her own thing without considering anyone. Her eldest son lost everything in the flood he now sleeps in the living room, well this week she has invited his new girlfriend to move in, that has now brought the ocupents of this place up to 6 adults. Ok normally wouldn't be so bad but this is a TWO BEDROOM TRAILER not even a double wide.

Her son has been here for over a month, he works full time every day he just bragged yesterday that he spent 400 on what i have no idea. Here my boyfriend and I put 700 into this place for bills and we get yelled at, dragged to beauty pageants, told what to do, have my room invaded, now all my baby supplies that i could use at any moment has to be back in storage. and he's wasting 400 on bullshyt. His girlfriend doesn't even have a job yet, because they job she had was illegal and she wasn't even making 200 a week.

Oh and this is even better, i left for a NIGHT didn't come home until after 6pm my phone was getting blown up only because I was with my boyfriend and his mother, I'm carring her grandson seriously. Oh and it gets better, her husband got told by a friend on facebook about this grant to help them get out of debt, they used the last of my money to get scammed that was nearly a month ago and they still haven't gotten the money. Every day its yelling and fighting, She has gone so damn batshyt crazy over these pageants she's has spent the rent money for the last 2 months, so on the 1st of november we will own the landlord 1200.

We want to move out, trust me we NEED to move out, but here's our issue. my boyfriend and I don't have a drivers license. My boyfriend could get his back but he owes 700, and living here we can't afford that. Me I'm half blind so my chance of getting one is slim. So if we do find a place I can't get to my dr appointments or even the hospital if labor starts. We have no idea what to do.

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Sorry to hear of your predicament.

How close are you able to move to public transport?

And if you do go into emergency labour there's always an ambulance. Or if it's regular labour catch a taxi.

Due to my anxiety public transport is a no no. However where we currently live there is no public transport. Also can't afford a taxi, like I said the roommates take everything it's bad my boyfriend's mom doesn't even want us to return when we are over there. She already told me that she wouldn't mind us moving in she'd get to see her grandson everyday. But she's got her niece and her family living there and my brother buttheads with the niece's husband. With all this fighting going on my PTSD is wanting me to just run away