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#26
Nov 08, 2016, 07:36 PM
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Him and I aren't friends, and like I said he cut me off altogether, I just was curious if he was going to go to the same concert that I did. If you knew your ex was at the same event, your curiosity would probably get the best of you and you would want to see them too.
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#27
Nov 08, 2016, 09:49 PM
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I would not be curious at all. If a person is my ex, I won't waste my time on useless nonsense. Anytime you spend wander social media snooping/ noisy/ stalker-ish behavior. You will never get that time back, life is short enough !
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Nov 08, 2016, 10:29 PM
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#29
Nov 09, 2016, 02:07 PM
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I don't know, it use to be easy for me to cut off my ex's and move on but now it is hard.
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Nov 09, 2016, 02:49 PM
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I agree this is unhealthy, abnormal behavior. I don't stalk my exes after breaking up with them. Especially if they blocked me on everything! That's the thing, he blocked you on everything, meaning he doesn't want you to have contact with him or to know anything about his life, and yet you break that boundary by creating a fake account to spy on him with. That's obsessive.
When I break up with someone, I don't want to see them or chat with them. There are a few instances where a break up is amicable, but often it's not and you don't have any kind of relationship with them anymore. Move on. Don't worry about him anymore. seesaw
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#31
Nov 09, 2016, 04:45 PM
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But it's very different if they clearly let you know that they never want to talk to you again then you must respect their wish. They posting on social media for their friends to read, not for people who they blocked. It's just wrong |
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#32
Nov 10, 2016, 12:40 AM
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Well he just blocked me, I can't recall him and I agreeing on friendship or being friends after the break up. ANyway who cares. He doesn't want me, and I don't want him.
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#33
Nov 10, 2016, 02:23 AM
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#34
Nov 10, 2016, 08:09 AM
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What did you both fight about all the time? What are you feeling when you are spying on him on fb? Doesn't it hurt to be peering at him from the outside?
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Nov 10, 2016, 02:10 PM
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Lololololol oh now those were the good ole days . Ha !
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Nov 10, 2016, 03:38 PM
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#37
Nov 11, 2016, 02:34 AM
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It doesn't hurt me looking in on him, I don't care. I will find someone better.
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