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You sound a lot like me. We are a real catch to the right fisherman.

well in the ongoing saga of meeting men from online dating sites, tonight I met a new douchebag...he is married and trolling for women to join him and his wife to have sex. of course it all began with I"m separated, really like you, got to talking very intimately (but less gross than some I've talked to)....then starts talking about how his wife would like having sex with me too (oh?)...so I ask, do you still live at home? well, yes...do you still want to have sex with your wife? yes, does that make you jealous? no.

in case you guys wonder, I do play games with these people and let them talk for a while. I will not go out with a married man if I know he is married.

anyway, I just reported him to the website, suggested they delete him (it is against the rules for married people to use the service) and blocked and deleted him completely from contacting me. what a freakin dumbazz

I mean, I dated when I was separated but I met the guy here on pc, and never met him IRL until I was completely out of the house with a separation agreement in hand. I'd known him for almost 6 months prior but he was not the reason for me leaving.

I have had many, many sexual requests. Married, single, separated, 3 somes. Casual sexual relationships are so hollow.

I just think I am passed the dating portion of life.

Don't give up. What sites do you use? I've met my husband on eharmony. I only talked to few people prior to meeting him, all were respectful professionals. Certainly no sex talk.

I have been on a lot of them in recent years. I admit to being a bit selective. I don't just go on dates with anyone. For example a-holes. lol

I am older and I need someone who is self sufficient. I have 2 sons and I don't need a third. I need someone with less drama. For my mental health.

There are swinger websites. Why did this jerk need to go on a dating website for singles to con a woman? That's so creepy! Yuck!

I understand being selective. So am I. I am same age as you. I was just surprised with number of certain propositions. So I suggested eharmony. They can't contact you on there randomly until they went through the process. Set up your criteria and standards high and stick to it.

You will find him. Got to keep living and looking. ((Hugs)))

I've never stayed long on a dating site, mainly because profile writing is hard. Partially because I dont' want to sound shallow and be listing all my "likes" and "activities" like some sort of grocery list, second, My life, as most people is rather bland and regular. Anything I put in a profile that would sound interesting and make me look good is going to be somewhat fake and/or embellished.

I met my guy on a dating site but before i met him, like tishabuv, i had alot of fun, met some nice men, went out to dance, coffee parties ect....
And then their were those who wouldn't put down their cell phones to have a real conversation or those who really just wanted to talk about " why their ex left them"

You do have a great sense of humor Tisha!

I did online dating for a couple years when it first came out. I had a good time and met some nice guys and met a few jerks (just looking for sex and married!). But I met my husband on a website over 14 years ago. We dated for 4 years (lived together for over 3) before we got married and tied the knot 10 years ago and we are both very happy and well suited for each other. It's not perfect but as close as I think it could be. We were made for each other. I had decided to delete my profile and just focus on my son which is what my heart was telling me but my parents were telling me to get out there and live and date and I was too young to be staying home every night after work. I decided to delete my profile because none of the guys I was meeting understood what it was like to be the sole responsible parent in your child's life and for them to depend on you for everything. I knew that my son was top priority so when I went to delete my profile my husband sent me a message, he was raising his son on his own (his son was 3, mine 5) and everything just clicked. I'm not a big believer in the supernatural but it sure felt like fate to me.

Keep hope alive! You will meet your match and each person you meet increases your odds of it being the one for you. (((Hugs)))

I agree with priorities and responsibilities. We have a lot of things going on in my house. Tons of autoimmune diseases and autism and bipolar.

I just need a nice guy who "exists" . Doesn't need a mommy. That just wants a relationship and a lover. I am not looking for earth shattering. Just nice and cute.

I really had a hard time on eharmony. Not very popular for my demographic.

I'm married now for 21 years, been a great time, i had several dates before i met my husband. i also raised my 26 year son, from a previous relationship. that was abusive,which seemed like hell because i had to domesticate myself!!!BORING is true. I sometimes wish i could get out more but have epilepsy and afraid of the outside world as i've had several seizures without even knowing it.

I really should move to a more liberal place. Widen my pond, so to speak.

Come to California. We have a very large economy and good weather

I love California. It is a bit expensive. I would want to see the ocean.