Some Older Guys Still Are Jerks

When it comes down to it, I will find another guy that will accept me for me end of story.

Stolemyheart, you sound angry at the advice that was given to you. There is no shame in trying out new things and improving upon your looks.

Take care!

Yes, you will.

However, rejection still hurts like a mofo....it really, really does. And in this day of anonymous people, we are all much more susceptible to it. Some of us can brush it off. But some of us cannot. If we can't, it's not a flaw and no amount of "oh get over it" is going to make the hurt feel better.

If anything resonates with anyone, thank you. It's one of the suckier things about the internet.

OP, I hope that you are not as sensitive as I am.

This is a great attitude and I agree. Be you and accept nothing less than someone else appreciating you as you are. I hope you find someone kind to spend time with.