[Caijoelle]

I don't know what is wrong with me so I don't know how to even get help. I seem to have a problem with relationships and i feel so hopeless. I have been dating my boyfriend for two years now. In the beginning we would make out and he said i was way more in to sex. I feel like I love him even more so i don't know why it changed. I also don't understand why i can't just change back. It seems so simple, he just wants me to be more into sex and make out with him but i can not do it. I feel like there is something just wrong with me. The exact same thing happened in my last serious relationship, everything was fine then all of a sudden i change and cant change back. I don't know what to do or how to get help, i dont want to lose another relationship over this. Please help

[FeelingHopeful]

How old are you guys ? If your young it couldbbe a factor like most young people starts off passionate but as time goes by you settle into everyday routine ?

[Skeezyks]

Hello Caijoelle: I'm sorry you are having this difficulty. Unfortunately, I don't know as there is much of anything I can suggest here either. Perhaps this is something you're going to need to explore with the help of a skilled mental health therapist. At least from my perspective, this is not something for which there may be an easy solution. Perhaps other members, here on PC, will have some insights they can share.

I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to PsychCentral… from the Skeezyks! I hope you find the time you spend here to be of benefit.

PsychCentral is a great place to get information as well as support for mental health issues. There are many knowledgeable & caring members here. The more you post, & reply to other members’ posts, the more a part of the community you will become. Plus there are social groups you can join & chat rooms where you’ll be able to connect with other PC members in real time (once your first 5 posts have been reviewed & approved.) Lots of great stuff! So please keep posting!