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Old Dec 11, 2016, 09:11 AM
Brasucasulu Brasucasulu is offline
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I have been in a relationship with man who had all the signs of a psychopath. When I decided to break up with him he gave me hell on Earth. We've been separated for over 4 years. Now he started getting in touch for a week, and I feel very tormented by his messages. He tends to call late at night or very early in the morning, when he's drunk. He is alcoholic and drinks almost everyday.
Two day ago he left me a very nasty voice message in the middle of the night. He said horrible things like that he has a lot of money, and that I have nothing, that I'm nobody, that I'm getting old and ugly, but that he looks young. He said f* you. And some more nasty stuff.
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Old Dec 11, 2016, 09:41 AM
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LeeeLeee LeeeLeee is offline
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Start documenting everything. If he is sending you texts or calls, you need to block his number, contact the phone company and make certain that you're doing it correctly and that all of your privacy controls are in order. Privacy controls on all social media are essential. Please makes sure your google tracking is on lockdown. You need to be diligent about everything.

THEN you contact the police and discuss the details obtaining a restraining order so you are ready to do it if you have to.

If you haven't already and only iff he contacts you again, state very clearly: "Do not contact me again." Let that be the last communication. Period.

The main thing is not to respond at all, ever to any of his attempts to get a reaction or connection, even negative connection, with you. Stay safe.
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Old Dec 11, 2016, 09:49 AM
Brasucasulu Brasucasulu is offline
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Start documenting everything. If he is sending you texts or calls, you need to block his number, contact the phone company and make certain that you're doing it correctly and that all of your privacy controls are in order. Privacy controls on all social media are essential. Please makes sure your google tracking is on lockdown. You need to be diligent about everything.

THEN you contact the police and discuss the details obtaining a restraining order so you are ready to do it if you have to.

If you haven't already and only iff he contacts you again, state very clearly: "Do not contact me again." Let that be the last communication. Period.

The main thing is not to respond at all, ever to any of his attempts to get a reaction or connection, even negative connection, with you. Stay safe.

Thank you Lee,

I have blocked him almost everywhere, but he always seems to find a way to find me. I won't reply to him, just want this to stop. I don't want to have anything to do with that demoniac man.
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