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both myself and my mother suffer serious mental illness.
I admit mine and go to Dr. She doesn't admit hers and says its all ME. I can not talk to her at this time..I"m not medicated at all..and she is hugely toxic. |
![]() *Laurie*, MickeyCheeky, Yours_Truly
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It really hard to deal with family mental health issues. I get treatment and take meds for bipolar. According to my family I'm lazy and taking the easy way out. My mom is alcoholic and blames it on her kids. I have 5 brothers and sisters and every one of them has MI and substance abuse problems. I don't know how old you are or if you live with your mother. So I don't know what to tell you about avoiding her. But it's absolutely NOT your fault she's mentally ill. You can not make her admit she has a problem or make her get help. The most important thing that you can do is take care of yourself and continue to get the help you need.
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![]() *Laurie*, Misssy2, Yours_Truly
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Try to live your own life, and ignore her.. that's all you can do, really. Big hugs
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Do you live with her? Are you in a position to distance yourself from her? My suggestion is to take control of what you can; namely, the contact you have with her. Allow her into your life only under your own terms.
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![]() *Laurie*, Misssy2
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