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Old Mar 31, 2017, 11:37 PM
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My husband has been intimate with me for awhile and he changed all his passwords on his devices. I don't know how to get him interested in me I feel so alone.
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If he is cheating ... that's a hard one to get him interested in you again. I think there would be more signs apart from changing passwords on devices. Have you noticed anything else? I change my passwords on my devices but I'm not cheating on my bf.
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Old Apr 05, 2017, 12:52 AM
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If he is cheating ... that's a hard one to get him interested in you again. I think there would be more signs apart from changing passwords on devices. Have you noticed anything else? I change my passwords on my devices but I'm not cheating on my bf.
He stopped having any form of intamincy. I talked to him today and he said he was perfectly fine not having any with me, and he is dealing with some stuff. He said he could tell I'm miserable and told me that he would let me go because he loves me enough he wants me happy. Its been over sixc months and he is such a loner and a nontouchy person he doesn't now when or if anythimng will ever be normal again. He said it was g him nuts the first few years. We have been together 5yrs. I don't know what to do.
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Old Apr 05, 2017, 02:12 AM
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Wow. He's not treating you right at all. Whilst his lack of intimacy might not be the result of an affair; it is none the less disturbing and not fulfilling your needs in a marriage. Don't mean to sound cliche, but have you tried counselling as a couple? If he doesn't work on his behaviour I don't see this relationship heading in any sort of direction.
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Old Apr 06, 2017, 11:12 PM
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Wow. He's not treating you right at all. Whilst his lack of intimacy might not be the result of an affair; it is none the less disturbing and not fulfilling your needs in a marriage. Don't mean to sound cliche, but have you tried counselling as a couple? If he doesn't work on his behaviour I don't see this relationship heading in any sort of direction.
Yeah we have thought about it but with our schedules we can't find the time and we also don't have that kinda money we are both in college. I'm miserable and I want to go into the hospital cause I can't handle this. My depression has kicked in majorly.
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