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#26
Apr 17, 2017, 08:09 AM
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Good job Hedgeleaf! Be sure to let the police know at once if ever he contacts you again.
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Apr 17, 2017, 08:48 AM
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I hope this resolves the problem for you and you've seen and heard the last of him. Best wishes.
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#28
Apr 17, 2017, 02:00 PM
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If he starts pursuing you further in other ways then go to the police and consider a restraining order. At least then there is something estabilished so you can do something about it if he pursues further. |
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Apr 18, 2017, 03:33 AM
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I am sorry you are going through this with your ex, I would definitely call the police and have them pay him a visit, You said he hates the police, Then I would especially call them and make a report, I think he is just trying to scare you with his threats because he didnt get his own way, He is just full of idle threats, And I would definitely get a PPO on him, He will not be able to contact you in any way shape or form, Including trying to bring anything to your place and dropping it off, It will be breaking the PPO if he steps near you or contacts you and I dont think he wants to go to jail, Good luck and dont let him intimate you
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Apr 18, 2017, 03:34 AM
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4 more messages this morning to my work email address!!
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Apr 18, 2017, 05:31 AM
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Tell the Police at once!
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Apr 18, 2017, 06:35 AM
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I would do as told by the police and that is to call them to let them know that he is still contacting you. Keep the emails to show the authorities. Best of luck to you and be safe!!!
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#33
Apr 18, 2017, 07:34 AM
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Don't respond to his emails at all. Yes, tell the police about these further emails.
Is he still sending you emails after the police spoke to him? Is he threatening you?
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#34
Apr 18, 2017, 10:52 AM
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Ask your work IT department to give you a new email address. Simple as that. keep him from being able to email you by changing your address if you can't do what I was suggesting earlier.
If he finds more intrusive ways to stalk and badger you, do talk to the police and file a restraining order. that can be enforced once he violates it again. |
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#35
Apr 18, 2017, 03:25 PM
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I would tell your boyfriend what you are going through. He is going to find out sooner or later, when he does find out you want to be the one to tell him, and to tell him when you can have a calm conversation, not when you see your ex parked in front of your house and your boyfriend needs an explanation of why you are freaking out. Most men's initial reaction will be from the primitive part of their brain that is usually hardwired in, and that is to protect you. That isn't such a bad reaction, you should be prepared to be calm him down, you don't want him to over react and go get in a fight with your ex.
And if your boyfriend isn't supportive and protective, that's good information to know before you get too serious with him. Keeping secrets in a relationship is always a bad idea, and bringing things out into the light can often make dark scary issues seem less scary.
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