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May 20, 2017, 09:36 AM
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I met a guy in February 2017 and he used me. I guess I am at fault to because the night I met him we had sex.
We only saw each other once a week and only texted like 3 lines and no phone contact. He never asked anything about me and when I talked about my life he didn't seem interested. I liked him a lot but felt he was distant because he didn't want to be involved. I brought it up several times and he said he was interested. He went out of his way to see me once a week because he has a job where he travels and he would come home once a week just to see me. he also has two young teen kids that he saw a lot so he hardly had time, maybe that's why he didn't want a relatinshop.. anyway I am in a situation where I am out of my house and I had to stay with him for a few weeks it got bad though because he would be not coming home and going to the bar after seeing his kids, I felt he didn't want to be around me it hurt and then one niht I asked if he wanted a relationship he said he cared about me but couldn't have a relationship because of his kids so I cried and said I was going to lleave. I slept there that night then he left the next day to go be with his kids and then I just packed and lfet with out saying goodbuy is it ok? I still feel guilty and sad. I miss him too he texted mee a week later and said It was for the best and he wishes me well I never texted back is it ok to leave it |
 Anonymous37959
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May 20, 2017, 10:34 AM
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Yes. I'm sorry this happened to you. It's ok to just leave it or to shoot him a quick text if it makes you feel better. He behaved badly. Do you have a therapist to process this? Best wishes....
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May 20, 2017, 05:30 PM
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Its fine to leave.. I would drop a text " maybe " Im sorry that this isnt working for either of us, I wish you the best.
The end... I hope your feeling better soon
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May 20, 2017, 05:42 PM
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If he already texted you that its for the best and he wishes you well, then he already gave you closure and it's ok not to respond back. If he didn't want a relationship, you are better off without him. I hope you feel better soon
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