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Old Jun 23, 2017, 11:37 PM
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I just feel like I'm doomed to spend the rest of my life without the company of a woman. I've worked so hard to get myself into a situation where (I would think) I'm someone women would want to be with, but nothing. NOTHING!

I just don't know where to go with it. I feel utterly despondent.
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Old Jun 24, 2017, 12:29 AM
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I just feel like I'm doomed to spend the rest of my life without the company of a woman. I've worked so hard to get myself into a situation where (I would think) I'm someone women would want to be with, but nothing. NOTHING!

I just don't know where to go with it. I feel utterly despondent.

I disagree.

Love yourself first, that's the most important rule. A good woman will cross your path at the right moment, so you have to be confident and ready for that.

I understand your frustration, I've been by myself for a long time, and after multiple bad relationships, I realize that we are better alone rather than accompanied with a toxic person. Unfortunately, it's just really hard to find someone nowadays, with all this superficiality and stupidity out there.
Be patient. It's going to happen.

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Old Jun 24, 2017, 04:27 AM
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I agree with CF17...love yourself and build a fulfilling life as you are now. The right woman will come along at the right time. Best wishes.
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Old Jun 24, 2017, 05:44 AM
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It's true what these people tell you. We shouldn't look for another person to bring us a happy life, it's setting yourself up for disappointment. I think it's good to be hopeful that there is someone out there for you. Most of the time these things happen when we least expect it.
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Old Jun 24, 2017, 05:50 AM
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I disagree.

Love yourself first, that's the most important rule. A good woman will cross your path at the right moment, so you have to be confident and ready for that.

I understand your frustration, I've been by myself for a long time, and after multiple bad relationships, I realize that we are better alone rather than accompanied with a toxic person. Unfortunately, it's just really hard to find someone nowadays, with all this superficiality and stupidity out there.
Be patient. It's going to happen.

You hit the nail on the head here !!! You have to love yourself before anything
can happen. People sense the insecurities and negativity you emit.
I know how it feels to be alone. But let me tell you something from my own experience. BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR!!! Only you , yourself , can
bring on the happiness your looking for. Hang in there. The time WILL COME !
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