[wwwcitricacid]

I am sick of having a particular girlfriend now, I want to be lonely again. Things were perfect before she came into my life and I want her out of my life for good.

I've already posted about her earlier after she told me that I creeped her out because I just licked my lips after kissing, I mean, what a whimp. Didn't check on it because soon after I posted it things were okay again, but that was just the start.

She really annoys me because she over-thinks every single thing that happens, she causes problems by imagining them then she tells me and then she goes "Oh please don't hate me!" ... Jesus christ, I never did hate her but because she worries so much it will become a self-fulfilling prophecy as I am beginning to hate her.

I hate how she worries so much about me because of my drinking habit and my diabetes, at first I appreciated that since she cares and all that but she rings up my family saying that my blood sugars are off, I hate it and I wish she could just not worry so I can enjoy being with her.

I would have liked her better if she did not worry about every damn thing, but worrying is a big part of the bag of nerves that she is, we talked about it, nothing has changed, as selfish as I am I need a relief so I am going to leave her. She can rot for all I care. She needs to go. I'm such an asshole.

(I did not alot of information and detail but I hope that I typed in enough for the readers to understand the situation.)

[~Christina]

It's okay to end a relationship if it's unhealthy for you.

My stepson is trying to get out of a relationship. His girlfriend literally makes him pull his hair out, but it's up to him to end it. As it is for you .

Good luck

Originally Posted by wwwcitricacid

I am sick of having a particular girlfriend now, I want to be lonely again. Things were perfect before she came into my life and I want her out of my life for good.

I've already posted about her earlier after she told me that I creeped her out because I just licked my lips after kissing, I mean, what a whimp. Didn't check on it because soon after I posted it things were okay again, but that was just the start.

She really annoys me because she over-thinks every single thing that happens, she causes problems by imagining them then she tells me and then she goes "Oh please don't hate me!" ... Jesus christ, I never did hate her but because she worries so much it will become a self-fulfilling prophecy as I am beginning to hate her.

I hate how she worries so much about me because of my drinking habit and my diabetes, at first I appreciated that since she cares and all that but she rings up my family saying that my blood sugars are off, I hate it and I wish she could just not worry so I can enjoy being with her.

I would have liked her better if she did not worry about every damn thing, but worrying is a big part of the bag of nerves that she is, we talked about it, nothing has changed, as selfish as I am I need a relief so I am going to leave her. She can rot for all I care. She needs to go. I'm such an asshole.

(I did not alot of information and detail but I hope that I typed in enough for the readers to understand the situation.)

Originally Posted by wwwcitricacid

She can rot for all I care.

If you feel like this about her often, then she is going to be better off without you and vice versa.

Originally Posted by wwwcitricacid

I hate how she worries so much about me because of my drinking habit and my diabetes.

In her defense, I know someone who I feel like acquired Type II diabetes because of his drinking. After stopping alcohol totallly, losing weight and exercising everyday, his A1C that was once in the 9s and 10s was a bit under 7 on his last checkup! I know that diet and exercise will not "cure" Type 1 diabetes but it can have a big impact on Type II and your future health. Out of control Type II could cause you to develope serious disabilities---so you are doing her a huge favor by leaving.......

[Crazy Hitch]

Yeah I think taking into account how you've written the post, you'd be better off ending things and moving on.

[Sunflower123]

I strongly encourage you to end this relationship to be fair to both of you. It's getting toxic.

Originally Posted by Jennifer 1967

I strongly encourage you to end this relationship to be fair to both of you. It's getting toxic.

Agreed!

[MickeyCheeky]

Tbh I think you're being too harsh to her.. but if you're unhappy then yeah, leave her. I think it might be the best thing for her, as well..

By what you said, I'm not sure why she needs to rot for all you care. But maybe you are just done. That's fine. Break up with her if that's what you need.

My dad drinks and has diabetes. He also eats meat and sugar all the time. We consider him very foolish. He refuses to exercise and sits around all day now that he is retired. He has incontinence, has to wear diapers, and has neuropathy. It sounds like she cares about you, and worries for good reason, but that she is not the right fit for you, and vice versa.

[pegasus]

Don't stay with someone you don't love. You've made it clear here you don't want her anymore, so do the right thing for both of you and end it.