[weRas2not1]

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My husband will lie about the color of the sky, with holds truths, DOES NOT COMMUNICATE WITH ME AT ALK I take that back when he's pissed im the only one he will cuss out and yell at...hrs always the victim, he surfs sex sites online, has internet numbers on our phone bill incoming/outgoing txt calls etc, and will straight lie about it...if he wants to be single why won't he let me go?

[pegasus]

The question is...Why are you still with him?

This sounds abusive... yes, why are you still with him? Leave ASAP. This is not a healthy relationship. (((hugs)))

[Shazerac]

Originally Posted by pegasus

The question is...Why are you still with him?

That's my question too.

[Quarter life]

Hi weRas2not1.

When it comes to long term relationships we tend to become comfortable & complacent...Often ignoring obvious problems when they have been a long standing issue. I truly believe that we teach others how to treat us when we remain silent...I fear it will probably remain up to you to decide when to say enough is enough weRas2not1.

I also see that this is your first post here weRas2not1. For those who feel alone, or simply wanting to reach out for a chat without judgement......Psych Central is the place. There are many good listeners here... we're a pretty good bunch.

I have been an active member of this site for more than 3 years. In that time I have received some really constructive feedback and connected with several others with similar challenges to myself. I have also found hanging out in the Games Forums to be a welcome distraction in times of stress... a great way to clear my head, meet like minded others, and have some well needed fun. New members also benefit greatly from perusing the many forums available here...lots to explore.

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Please be kind & generous to yourself weRas2not1, and welcome to P.C

[Sunflower123]

Hello. Welcome to PC. My question is the same as the ones listed above. Why don't you leave him? You deserve someone worthy of your time and attention. I hope you come to the realization that this relationship is not healthy for you. Sending big hugs.

[~Christina]

Does he have a single good quality ?

Get your ducks in a row and leave him, best advice I can offer.

[Born2Fly71]

Originally Posted by weRas2not1

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My husband will lie about the color of the sky, with holds truths, DOES NOT COMMUNICATE WITH ME AT ALK I take that back when he's pissed im the only one he will cuss out and yell at...hrs always the victim, he surfs sex sites online, has internet numbers on our phone bill incoming/outgoing txt calls etc, and will straight lie about it...if he wants to be single why won't he let me go?

Let him go. It starts with you loving and respecting yourself. Run and don't look back.

[weRas2not1]

Hey friends thank you for your love and concern why won't I leave him? I promised God that I would love honor and obey, and i love him , yrs he has some good in him, it's just hard to remember that when I constantly catch him lying, im not completely blind , I've prayed and asked God to remove me from this marriage and all of a sudden im attending college , working for amazon, and i have a savings account, it all happened so easily and quickly I knew it was God, guys im out of here, just gotta stick to my guns, be patient, and prance my lol butt right out the door, independent and free, will I love again , im sure , bit not for a long long time! I believe he knows I dont care anymore because now I'm getting flowers, sex, etc and i could care less, i love him, not in love anymore. I will have the last laugh! Prayer is welcomed! Xoxoxo

[weRas2not1]

Originally Posted by Quarter life

Hi weRas2not1.

When it comes to long term relationships we tend to become comfortable & complacent...Often ignoring obvious problems when they have been a long standing issue. I truly believe that we teach others how to treat us when we remain silent...I fear it will probably remain up to you to decide when to say enough is enough weRas2not1.

I also see that this is your first post here weRas2not1. For those who feel alone, or simply wanting to reach out for a chat without judgement......Psych Central is the place. There are many good listeners here... we're a pretty good bunch.

I have been an active member of this site for more than 3 years. In that time I have received some really constructive feedback and connected with several others with similar challenges to myself. I have also found hanging out in the Games Forums to be a welcome distraction in times of stress... a great way to clear my head, meet like minded others, and have some well needed fun. New members also benefit greatly from perusing the many forums available here...lots to explore.

Also after 5 approved posts members have the option to join the chatrooms..or chat one on one with other members.

Should you have any questions on navigating this site, please don't hesitate to private message me or any of the other Community Liaisons who will be more than happy to help. Just click on the screen name above my avatar.

Please be kind & generous to yourself weRas2not1, and welcome to P.C